When is too soon to sleep with someone?
This week, a question comes to the Good Men Project from the TrèsSugar community. Do you go by the “not until the second date” rule? Do you play your bedroom tactics by ear? Is there such a thing as too soon?
I met this guy on a Thursday while I was hanging with my friend at our local bar. He was placed at our table because there was no other seat. Since he didn’t seem super awkward, we all started chatting. We went to another bar, got drinks, and I went home with him but we didn’t have sex. I left in the morning, he got my number, he texted me all weekend, and I saw him Sunday night. We went to dinner, I slept over, and we had sex. The next day, we had an amazing morning, then I didn’t hear from him for a week.
Eventually we texted a bit, then I saw him again at the same cafe. We chatted, had drinks, then he drove me home and said, “We’ll take this slow, okay?” That was five days ago and I’ve heard nothing from him. Did sleeping with him so soon ruin my chances of actually dating this guy? Or is he being serious when he says that he wants to take it slow?
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