Most women have no idea that men are also frightened of them, and we men do everything we can to keep it that way.
Stop Apologizing
If you want to improve your relationships.
If you want to improve your relationships.
Men: Feed Your Relationship Every Day
Reassurance is the glue that holds relationships together.
Reassurance is the glue that holds relationships together.
Men: Your Anger is Not a Problem
But that self-righteous disdain has got to go.
But that self-righteous disdain has got to go.
Why Men Withdraw in Relationships When Women Pursue
The Pursuer-Distancer Relationship.
The Pursuer-Distancer Relationship.
Men’s Panic at the Thought Their Wives Might Stop “Helping” Them
Learning from women how to be more loving and generous.
Learning from women how to be more loving and generous.
Lingering Life Lessons Learned from My Mother
Men's fears of women in intimate relationships.
Men’s fears of women in intimate relationships.
Men: Friendships are Like Diversifying Your Portfolio
Friends help prevent loss.
Friends help prevent loss.
Methinks the President Doth Protest Too Much
Conservative politics and fragile masculinity.
Conservative politics and fragile masculinity.
Can Men Talk About Our Pain
Without subtly asserting the privilege of "White Tears".
Without subtly asserting the privilege of “White Tears”.
China Decides to Import Additional Toxic Masculinity from the U.S.
No additional tariffs required.
No additional tariffs required.
Men’s Fears of Women in Intimate Relationships: A Conversation
Research assistance needed. Help change the way we think about men and fear.
Research assistance needed. Help change the way we think about men and fear.
Silencing the Self
Men do it too, but for different reasons.
Men do it too, but for different reasons.
What Makes Men Tick?
Should Feminism care about men's internal experience?
Should Feminism care about men’s internal experience?
Men, Women, and the Struggle Over Who Holds Anxiety
The medicalizing and gendering of everyday experience.
The medicalizing and gendering of everyday experience.
Relationship Repair 101
Five things everyone needs to feel better after a fight.
Five things everyone needs to feel better after a fight.