“Romantics value intensity over stability. Realists value security over passion. But both are often disappointed, for few people can live happily at either extreme.”-Esther Perel
If he truly respected himself he wouldn’t just try to be nice and accommodating; he would articulate his own needs as well.
Relationships can, if they are healthy, be the greatest source of personal growth and maturity.
Being happy gets put on a pedestal in our society. But is it real?
Not allowing ourselves to be vulnerable is actually weakness.
The pursuit of surface level happiness is what gets us into trouble.
The problem we have in relationships is that we tend to become like our partner if we’re not paying attention. This creates the sexless marriage.
The important thing in all of these is getting right swipes and getting the girl interested in you.
If we all start looking at ourselves first when we have relationship problems then we’ll be able to have long-lasting, happy, and passionate relationships.