Commitment is not the act of losing your freedom; but exercising it to choose who you want to give your most valuable gifts to.
8 Standards Of Conduct For The Modern Gentleman
What choices does a gentleman make that set him off from the rest? James Michael Sama tells us.
10 Stereotypes to Stop Spreading About Men
The things that we say about each other can truly be damaging, especially if we keep perpetuating gender stereotypes. James Michael Sama reminds us that not all men are the same.
Men, You Have to Start Earning a Woman’s Trust the Moment You Meet Her
James Michael Sama on one of the most important aspects of a relationship — the ability to make yourself vulnerable, and in turn, accept your partner’s vulnerability.
Men Need Love Too: 13 Things We Want To Hear
James M. Sama on how to make a good man in your life feel appreciated.
James M. Sama on how to make a good man in your life feel appreciated.
A Letter To Those We Once Loved
Just because it’s not there now, doesn’t mean it wasn’t real. From James Sama.
This 92 Year-Old Man Refused To Give Up On Love…
…and now, 62 years later, he has his bride.
8 Ways Dating Changes As You Get Older
What we appreciate—and need—in a potential mate changes as we get older. James Michael Sama identifies eight ways our dating outlook shifts with—shall we call it, ahem, maturity instead of age?
Why the NFL Dropped the Ball on Ray Rice’s Domestic Abuse Case
James Michael Sama just watched Ray Rice cold-cock Janay Palmer, and he’s had enough of wrist-slapping, victim-blaming, and justifying when it comes to abuse. Have you?
Defending Women Doesn’t Make You Less of a Man
James Michael Sama reminds us we’ve evolved and says it’s about time we started acting human.
Why We Need To Talk About Christy Mack And Victim-Blaming
James Michael Sama asks men to stand up against victim-blaming, after the recent attack of Christy Mack.
7 Ways to Live a Happy Single Life
Not sure how to succeed in the single life? James Michael Sama has a few tips for you.
5 Types of People To Avoid Dating
Dating is scary enough. Here’s a list of people to avoid to make it easier.
It’s About More Than Just Being A Good Man: 10 Ways To Know You’re Ready For A Relationship
We talk a lot about what makes a man a good boyfriend. But James Michael Sama wants us to dig a little deeper.
Sex or Substance, What Do Men Really Want?
James Michael Sama admits that if he’d only been looking for the physical, he wouldn’t have found real, lasting love.
8 Things Happy Couples Don’t Do
James Michael Sama tips you off on the traps that happy couples have learned to avoid.












