on why men keep losing good women.
About Katarzyna Portka
Boundaries Are the Real Love Language
The right person will never punish you for having limits
The right person will never punish you for having limits.
Single, Calm, and Off Dating Apps
I would rather trip into love than swipe into it.
I would rather trip into love than swipe into it.
Why You Can’t Let Them Go (It’s Not Love)
Inconsistent affection is the most addictive emotional pattern you can experience.
Inconsistent affection is the most addictive emotional pattern you can experience.
The Person You Are Obsessed With Is a Mirror, Not a Match
Eventually they show you the places where you still doubt your worth. Or they expose how comfortable you have become chasing love instead of receiving it.
Eventually they show you the places where you still doubt your worth. Or they expose how comfortable you have become chasing love instead of receiving it.
Let Them Miss Out on You
It is your superpower. You know your loyalty and devotion. How fiercely you can show up. This capacity is still yours. Your ability to love is not dependent on who stays.
It is your superpower. You know your loyalty and devotion. How fiercely you can show up. This capacity is still yours. Your ability to love is not dependent on who stays.
You Are Not Bad at Dating. You Are Hungry.
Scarcity rewires your nervous system.
Scarcity rewires your nervous system.
The Brutal Cost of Being the “Self-Aware” One in Relationships
Self-awareness has a dark side.
Self-awareness has a dark side.
A Therapist Told Me This Is the #1 Predictor of Relationship Longevity
Psychology explains why some couples survive and others do not.
Psychology explains why some couples survive and others do not.
That ‘Spark’ You Feel Might Be a Trauma Response
On why you are attracted to the same toxic patterns in relationships.
On why you are attracted to the same toxic patterns in relationships.
Stop Blaming Women for Men’s Bad Behaviour
Modern dating advice doesn’t actually protect women. It humiliates them.
Modern dating advice doesn’t actually protect women. It humiliates them.
Why Smart Women Sometimes Fall for Emotionally Unavailable Men
Oh no, honey.
Oh no, honey.
Being the ‘Good Woman’ Doesn’t Guarantee Being Chosen
Good women know how to love deeply.
Good women know how to love deeply.
The Ghost of Someone Who Knew You Once but Wouldn’t Recognize You Now
On the versions of us that linger in other people’s memory.
on the versions of us that linger in other people’s memory.
The Feminine Guide on How to Flirt With Life
...and become magnetic without even trying.
and become magnetic without even trying.
Your Intuition Is the Original Dating App
No algorithm will ever know you better than you do.
No algorithm will ever know you better than you do.