Sex, like anything else, takes time and intention.
About Lesli Doares
You Said You Would Do It But…
Good intentions aren't good enough in a marriage.
Good intentions aren’t good enough in a marriage.
Loves Me, Loves Me Not
Expressing your love matters to your marriage.
Expressing your love matters to your marriage.
What If Your Partner Is Right About You?
What is your reaction when your partner accuses you of something?
What is your reaction when your partner accuses you of something?
The Interdependence You and Your Marriage Need
Marriage, like life, is about embracing interdependence.
Marriage, like life, is about embracing interdependence.
Stop the Whataboutism in Your Marriage
If you’re in a relationship, especially a marriage, you have a built-in scapegoat.
If you’re in a relationship, especially a marriage, you have a built-in scapegoat.
Stop the ‘He Said, She Said’ Arguments in Your Relationship
You never experience an event or conversation the same way as another person.
You never experience an event or conversation the same way as another person.
Marriage Doesn’t Require Giving Up You
Marriage often gets a bad rap because too many people buy into the myth that it requires you to sacrifice or compromise yourself out of existence.
Marriage often gets a bad rap because too many people buy into the myth that it requires you to sacrifice or compromise yourself out of existence.
What’s Behind the Fights in Your Marriage?
If fights are happening in your marriage, it’s because you are choosing to have them.
If fights are happening in your marriage, it’s because you are choosing to have them.
The Courage to Be Both You and Married
If you give up who you are, your relationship is doomed to failure.
If you give up who you are, your relationship is doomed to failure.
Marriage Requires Change, But Not as Much as You Think
I am a proponent of changing behaviors that are bothersome to one spouse.
I am a proponent of changing behaviors that are bothersome to one spouse.
Sometimes In Marriage You Have to Say ‘No’
Saying “no” may mean disappointing someone you love and care about. But saying "yes" and not meaning it leads to feeling resentful and manipulated.
Saying “no” may mean disappointing someone you love and care about. But saying “yes” and not meaning it leads to feeling resentful and manipulated.
Complaining About Your Marriage Is the Wrong Way to Go
Complaining Is easy. Taking action is hard.
Complaining Is easy. Taking action is hard.
Why Guys Should Watch Chick Flicks
For women, sex is mainly in our heads. Annnnddd...chick flicks put us in the moment.
For women, sex is mainly in our heads. Annnnddd…chick flicks put us in the moment.
What Does Money Mean to You?
How you answer this question is really important for your marriage.
How you answer this question is really important for your marriage.
Resentment—the Silent Relationship Killer
Resentment works on the foundation of a relationship much like termites work on a house.
Resentment works on the foundation of a relationship much like termites work on a house.