. Transcript provided by YouTube. Slightly edited with AI. Will Dating Mess With My Peace? One of you wrote under one of my most recent videos, “Who’s here watching Matthew’s dating tips and not dating at all?” That was from Cook With YuYu 2024. It was the most liked comment on the video,…
7 Things Narcissists Do That’ll Never Make Sense to You
. Transcript provided by YouTube. Slightly edited with AI. Signs You Might Be with a Narcissist Understanding Narcissism What are the signs that you are dating, have fallen for, or are married to a narcissist? There are certain types of people in this world who will never make sense to the rest of…
“How Do I Get Him to Try Harder?”
. Transcript provided by YouTube. Slightly edited with AI. Hey everyone! We have some exciting news: our retreat is coming up from September 9th to the 15th. If you want to spend six transformative days with me on the beach in Florida, this is the one and only time it’s happening this year.…
My Best Advice on How to Get over Someone… (Or Get Them Back!)
. Transcript provided by YouTube. Slightly edited with AI. When We Want Someone Back If you are in pain right now because the love of your life ended things with you and you want them back, this video is for you. I will discuss what it might take to get someone back and…
“Things Were Going Well… Then He Ended It Suddenly”
. Transcript provided by YouTube. Slightly edited with AI. The Risks of Love Part of the risk of putting yourself out there in love is that three months from now, someone may change their mind. Similarly, in a long-term relationship, ten years from now, someone might also decide they want something different. Welcome…
My Honest Advice to Single Women Who Want a Family
. Transcript provided by YouTube. Slightly edited with AI. Dating When You Want a Family Hey everyone, welcome back to the channel! I’m Matthew Hussey, a coach specializing in confidence and relational intelligence, and for the last 17 years, I’ve been helping people find love. I’m also the author of the New York…
“I Can’t Get Over My Ex…Please Help Me Move On!”
. Transcript provided by YouTube. Slightly edited with AI. A picture of my ex-boyfriend and his new girlfriend pops up, and I haven’t eaten a clementine since! It dropped directly onto my phone and liked the picture. You can’t send a message saying, “That wasn’t me; it was my clementine!” Welcome to the…
“I Get Too Obsessed Too Quickly When I Like Someone…”
. Transcript provided by YouTube. Slightly edited with AI. Getting Obsessed in Early Dating Hello everyone! I am Matthew Hy, the author of the brand-new book *Love Life*, which became a New York Times bestseller a few weeks ago. I’m also a coach specializing in confidence and relational intelligence, and for the…
How Soon Can I Ask for Exclusivity?
. Transcript provided by YouTube. Slightly edited with AI. I think there are very sinister manipulators out there, but there are also many unconscious people who run around doing a lot of damage because they’re just looking for a thrill. They often lack the emotional maturity, discipline, or ability to truly open up…
Becoming Whole Again After a Relationship With a Narcissist
. Transcript provided by YouTube. Slightly edited with AI. I just got back from a weekend in Zion National Park with a very special group of people as part of my Club 320 program. There was a moment during this weekend that I think will resonate with many out there. Cara, one…
Don’t Fall for This Early Dating Trap!
. Transcript provided by YouTube. Slightly edited with AI. Attracting Healthy Relationships The person providing emotional safety can really have a hold on you. Sometimes, all it takes is for someone to tell you the right things and do the right things to temporarily soothe emotional wounds. This dynamic can raise questions: Why…
The Biggest Mistake You Can Make in a Long Distance Relationship
. Transcript provided by YouTube. Slightly edited with AI. Hello everyone, welcome back to the channel! I am Matthew Hussey, a coach specializing in confidence and relational intelligence. I am widely known for helping people find love. Last week, I answered a whole bunch of questions that you had sent in and left…
Are They Right for You? (Love Languages Explained)
. Transcript provided by YouTube. Slightly edited with AI. Intro to Love Languages It’s often the things we feel we’re lacking that highlight our love languages. We might think to ourselves, “That’s my love language; I really need that.” The reason we feel this need so strongly is often because we’re not receiving…
Why They Always Come Back + How to Reach Out After It Ends
. Transcript provided by YouTube. Slightly edited with AI. Advice to His 16-Year-Old Self Matthew reflects on the importance of patience and self-worth in relationships. He emphasizes that it’s okay to take time and not feel pressured to rush into a relationship due to fear of missing out. Last Time He Cried…
Why He Disappeared After Sleeping With You
. Transcript provided by YouTube. Slightly edited with AI. We need to stop viewing sex as a way of giving away our power. It’s a misconception to think that having sex means you’ve already given your power away. Your power is not something that can be relinquished in a moment; it is something…
Why Love Is Not Enough! (And the 3 Things You Need as Well)
. Transcript provided by YouTube. Slightly edited with AI. Love Without Compatibility? Why isn’t love enough when it comes to finding a long-term relationship? In my new book *Love Life*, I discuss how compatibility is an essential ingredient for a lasting relationship. Many of us find ourselves loving someone with whom we lack…















