Abundance is everywhere when you open your mind.
Why a Small Amount of Risk is a Good Thing
For Raymond Baxter, there was a learning curve that was tough and hard to get my head around at the beginning.
For Raymond Baxter, there was a learning curve that was tough and hard to get my head around at the beginning.
What Happened When I STOPPED Basing My Relationships on That “Spark”
Sometimes what we think is chemistry is really a toxic addiction.
Sometimes what we think is chemistry is really a toxic addiction.
Interview with a Recovering Addict
The interviewer is recovering from purity culture, the author is an ex-porn addict. Some of these answers (and the questions) may surprise you.
The interviewer is recovering from Purity culture, the author is an ex-porn addict. Some of these answers (and the questions) may surprise you.
Why Men Need to Adapt to Modern Society (and Quickly)
Men and women no longer have strict social roles, which is actually a great thing when we’re talking about the evolution of humanity. But that means men need to evolve too.
Men and women no longer have strict social roles, which is actually a great thing when we’re talking about the evolution of humanity. But that means men need to evolve too.
When You Find Yourself Alone and Grieving
If I kept looking at what could have been and how things could have gone, I would be taking my focus off what I should be doing NOW.
If I kept looking at what could have been and how things could have gone, I would be taking my focus off what I should be doing NOW.
Perhaps Instead of Blaming Each Other We Could Start Working WITH Each Other
It benefits a select group of people for us to be divided, but how does it really benefit us?
It benefits a select group of people for us to be divided, but how does it really benefit us?
Why Feeling Bad Isn’t Necessarily a Bad Thing
Our brains are wired to keep us in the comfort zone. But feeling bad can prompt us to leave that for something better.
Our brains are wired to keep us in the comfort zone. But feeling bad can prompt us to leave that for something better.
What the Last Election Should Teach Us About Relationships and Communication
We -- you and me and the media -- tackled that situation all wrong.
We — you and me and the media — tackled that situation all wrong.
The Best Thing a Girl-Crazy Guy Can Do
Ironically, you're least likely to find a mate when dating and sex is all you can think about.
Ironically, you’re least likely to find a mate when dating and sex is all you can think about.
A Relationship Takes Two, and So Does a Breakup
The minute you start blaming and hating on another person or yourself then you do yourself a disservice.
The minute you start blaming and hating on another person or yourself then you do yourself a disservice.
Can’t We Just be Friends? Yes, With Some Caveats.
The myth that men are not being able to be friends with women is a social construct that should be demolished.
The myth that men are not being able to be friends with women is a social construct that should be demolished.
What Women REALLY Want in Men (According to Women)
Relationships can't be gamed. But they can be won.
Relationships can’t be gamed. But they can be won.
Why We Need to Find and Create Safe Spaces for Ourselves and Others
In our work life, our love life, our family life, and our public life -- safe spaces are a tool for hearing and being heard.
In our work life, our love life, our family life, and our public life — safe spaces are a tool for hearing and being heard.
The Paradox of My Mother’s Attempt to Save Me From Toxic Masculinity
I learned to hate maleness while thinking I was somehow superior because I wasn't like the other guys.
I learned to hate maleness while thinking I was somehow superior because I wasn’t like the other guys.
Shedding the Chains of Toxic Masculinity
We spend too much time focused on the sexuality of others; who has the prettiest girl, who walks like a woman, who needs to man up ...
We spend too much time focused on the sexuality of others; who has the prettiest girl, who walks like a woman, who needs to man up …









