What does it mean when we keep going back to a partner who is not good for us, even though our friends all warn against it and there’s no real hope for change?
Why We as Men Must Do Something
‘The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing’ Edmund Burke
‘The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing’ Edmund Burke
Confessions of a Secret Sexist
Why this man feels that, in some unconscious ways, he has disrespected women. And why he wants to change.
Why this man feels that, in some unconscious ways, he has disrespected women. And why he wants to change.
Gender Stereotyping Isn’t Helpful for Men or Women
But by accepting each other as we are we can build a better world together!
But by accepting each other as we are we can build a better world together!
Sexual Harassment – It’s Not Big and it’s Not Clever, and it Never Was
But if we understand better where it comes from we can all help to end it.
But if we understand better where it comes from we can all help to end it.
The Male Sexual Harassment Cat is out of the Bag!
And there’ll be no putting it back – which will be a good thing for all of us.
And there’ll be no putting it back – which will be a good thing for all of us.
Relationship Bombs
How to find them and defuse them before they destroy your love life.
How to find them and defuse them before they destroy your love life.
The ‘Men’s Rights’ Movement Is Not Helping Anyone
Least of all the men who subscribe to it.
Least of all the men who subscribe to it.
The Woman you Need may be Standing in Front of You
You just can't see her. (Yet)
You just can’t see her. (Yet)
Gender Dynamics in a Relationship.
What I learned about how they functioned in my relationship, and how I could improve them.
What I learned about how they functioned in my relationship, and how I could improve them.
Facts of Attraction
If you understand some of its mysteries, you can make attraction work for you.
If you understand some of its mysteries, you can make attraction work for you.
How I learned To Stop Sabotaging My Relationship
And started building a foundation of trust and understanding instead.
And started building a foundation of trust and understanding instead.
Ten Love ‘Commandments’
Rules of thumb which can help attract and build Love in your life.
Rules of thumb which can help attract and build Love in your life.
What More Can Men Do To End Sexual Harassment In The Age Of Weinstein And Trump
Behaving inappropriately with women is not every man’s problem – but we can all be part of the solution
Behaving inappropriately with women is not every man’s problem – but we can all be part of the solution
Let’s Praise the Way Men Think and Act Differently From Women
We know our brains are pretty much the same, but men still tend to think and act differently from women in some ways. And that’s all right.
We know our brains are pretty much the same, but men still tend to think and act differently from women in some ways. And that’s all right.
Choosing to Believe in Love Will Neutralise Destructive Negative Expectations
Even cynical romantics, with a set of unrealistic expectations for a relationship, can see the power of choosing to believe in ‘possibility’.












