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Todd Stevens

About Todd Stevens

Todd Stevens is the founder and lead coach of Renovation Marriage, where he and his wife, Erin, run weekend intensive workshops for couples. A former pastor of 19 years with an MBA, he has coached more than 1,000 couples, with 98% reporting significant progress. He writes about communication, conflict, and what it looks like for husbands to show up in marriage for the long haul.

Can a Narcissist Change? First, Make Sure You’re Asking About the Right Person

The clinical disorder is rare. The accusation is everywhere. And the test that tells them apart works just as well in the mirror as across the kitchen table.

May 29, 2026 by Todd Stevens Leave a Comment

You’re pretty sure you married a narcissist. In 1959, a psychiatrist named Milton Rokeach ran a strange experiment. He found three men in a state hospital in Ypsilanti, Michigan, who each believed, with total certainty, that he was Jesus Christ. So Rokeach moved all three onto the same ward. Same room, same meals, same…

Why Husbands Keep Losing the Argument They Never Actually Understood

Same Song, New Cover

May 1, 2026 by Todd Stevens Leave a Comment

Same Song, New Cover

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