The sometimes smart men at The Good Men Project share advice. Today, one of those guys dishes on the wonderful things about women that drive men crazy. In a good way.
1. Your personality. Yes, you. Plain ol’ you. Your personality. Your sharp wit. Your dry sense of humor. Your worldview. Being yourself is key to attraction to a good guy. The goons and the Cro-Magnon’s of the world may not like your quirky personality, but a quality man will go crazy for it. Because the “you” is genuine. True. Pure. And, to a guy worth a damn, very, very sexy.
2. Your looks. Let’s be honest. Physical attraction is big. Especially in the cosmetically obsessed 21st century. But, being hot is totally subjective. Megan Fox may be hot to many men. But Zooey Deschanel is just as hot to a group of men as well. When a woman finds her own personal “beautiful”, and flaunts that, that’s when the men she’s meant to attract will go crazy for her. Many, many men aren’t looking for runway models. They’re looking for their kind of hot.
3. Your imperfections. Sound crazy? It’s not. When a man is in to a woman, he won’t overlook a woman’s blemishes, he’ll accept and embrace them. Lauren Hutton’s famous gap toothed smile didn’t stop men from drooling over her. Smart men know that no one is perfect…they themselves are flawed! A good man will see the moles a woman may have, her love handles, and her funny looking calves and know that they are a part of the that lady that’s stolen their hearts.
4. Your Style. Is your personal style trendy? Are you “up” on the latest fashions? Or, is your sense of style more alternative? Are you more of a vintage style, thrift store girl? Whatever your style is, if you wear it with conviction, if it’s authentically you, then that will drive a “special” man crazy. In a good, sexy way.
5. Your sexuality. Sex and sexuality is a very important part adult of life. It’s an important part of attraction as well. Different people possess different kinds of sexuality. If you are a woman who possess a smoldering, take no prisoners kind of sexuality/sex appeal, best believe there’s a man out there who will go gaga over you. But, a woman on the other end of that spectrum can attract a man as well. Women who have a subtle, low key sexuality will more than likely attract the kind of man that loves the hint of sex appeal more than an a bolder form sexiness.
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