Remember the moments and reasons why your partner is special and important to you. Get out that glass of wine when the kids have gone to bed and remember …
He lets things roll off his back.
He allows you to be right.
He puts the kids to bed and handles the night shift.
He’s like the Pied Piper of Hamelin when it comes to kids on the playground.
He runs errands and does the grocery shopping.
He can hold a conversation with anyone he meets.
He loves the kids to pieces.
He is tough and resilient … except when he is a softie.
Get the idea?
What does your man do that gives you that warm, fuzzy feeling?
Tell him.
She is my best friend.
My partner is an amazing mother and wife.
She shows me I’m worthy to be loved.
I can’t imagine life without her.
She never quits on herself, or us.
She whispers ‘I love you’ before falling asleep.
She rolls up the toothpaste tube for me.
She is your woman. Your life.
Let her know.
Regularly taking the time to remember and appreciate your partner’s qualities can help keep the flame of love alive.
Remember why you fell in love in the first place, and let those memories and realizations guide you towards a deeper and more fulfilling connection.
In the words of the poet Rumi “Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.”
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