When it comes to Twin Flames, the conventional wisdom says that the passion between them is so fiery that it cannot last. Some Twin Flame connections unfold in a single afternoon, or on a surprising single train ride. Others become life-changing relationships, where lovers are remade from the inside out. One way or another, most Twin Flames stories end with explosions that are as dramatic as the passion that characterized the relationship.
Passion is the word that best captures my relationship with my TF. There is not a single thing about our relationship that is conventional. We are polyamorous. Taking about something like marriage would be for us like speaking a foreign language.
The language we share is one of personal transformation. He remakes my heart, day after passionate day. The value we share, more than any other, is the deep desire to grow thanks to our love.
I have been doing this wild dance of loving my TF for more than three years. A writer, I’ve chronicled it all. Today, I’ve decided to share snapshots of it with you.
Our Poly Beginnings
Day 1
Hey there –
I’ll confess that I’m pretty bummed to be heading into the weekend not having heard from you all week.
I’ll also confess that meeting you felt really different- not that I haven’t dated in the states since I left my marriage — because I have — but still, different somehow.
Maybe because we share a mother tongue. And, because you are hot. Still, meeting you felt somehow like coming home…
I know I can be intense. I mean. This message is intense. And I’m sure that your life and your feelings about your wife are plenty complicated. But, when you’re ready, and if you’re at all interested, I humbly request- Don’t decide about me until we really go out once. Because, I think there might be something good here for us.
Day 2
Hey, sorry I wasn’t in touch. Was an intense week. I enjoyed talking to you and would be happy to meet again. Simply, very busy both at work and socially. Also, feel like I need to explain better the Poly lifestyle. Not sure if I was totally clear about it when we met. Let’s meet for coffee or lunch next week when I am in Hanaton?
Day 3
Probably better that you just reach out if and when the desire arises for you.And, among other things, I’d love to listen and hear how you do poly.For me, being poly is a state of widening of heart. One that reflects my own inner truth, that is more natural for me. But it requires, first and foremost, attention. So, if your attention is called here, feel free to reach out.
To be continued…
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This post was previously published on Sarenity.
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