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on evenings like this
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having like done so much in the day to
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get to this point but still having so
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much left to do before tomorrow I’m so
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tired I’m really not sure what to say
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the hardest part for me is showing up
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for everybody how they need me to show
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up each person that needs something
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doesn’t fully grasp what the other
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people are asking of me I do have an
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element of OCD that
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um
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makes it harder to delegate and when I
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start to delegate and things don’t go as
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they should I don’t give myself the
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grace yes I apologize welcome black we
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are about to bake a cake with the kids
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um a little holiday special video uh we
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also have a job sponsor for this video
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so thank you so much to Doug
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yeah make sure you guys like subscribe
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and uh you know let us know your
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favorite cake in the comment section
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below mine just happens to be 7Up cake
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but today we’re making a very special
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cake as a family chocolate cake okay so
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everybody wants to be a part of it so
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you have to share the responsibility so
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what’s the one thing you want to do
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and then put that in it
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that’s four things can you do one thing
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what’s the one thing you want to do that
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right now
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oh my gosh
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that is so cool good job
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Facebook can you go get your brothers
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and sisters so they can help them yeah
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[Music]
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all right so we’re about to ask the kids
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to come in and help us
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um yeah I’m super excited I love
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chocolate cake actually
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but this is the this is a special cake
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because our kids are allergic to a lot
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of things and this is one of the few
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cakes that they can actually eat okay so
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we’re about to have them come in we got
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egg substitute we got something I’m
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ready gluten-free
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gluten-free batter here
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um
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[Music]
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elbow or your hands do we need
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to wash your hands again
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[Music]
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[Applause]
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[Music]
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uh I like are we gonna will you put eggs
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into a fish it helps to stick things
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together
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and Mom can I put this in there
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well the oil still have to go in all
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right
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okay good job
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liquid but all of it yes
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[Music]
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[Music]
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everyone tell us what your favorite
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thing is about family night the favorite
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thing is
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[Music]
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playing games video
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what’s your favorite thing about family
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night uh
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when I was a kid I never really knew
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what I was asking for when I asked my
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parents for a Christmas gift I didn’t
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know the other things they had to
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balance I didn’t know what it took for
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them to make sure they got me to school
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on time got me the clothes I needed made
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sure the things were going fine around
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the house showed up for their own job
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showed up in their Community cooked
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meals made arrangements met deadlines
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and still found time to care for
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themselves now as parents my wife and I
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get true looks at what it feels like to
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have people really relying on you
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ultimately we know that these moments
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are the good old days for our children
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these are the times that they’re going
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to think back on look back at these
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videos and get those warm feelings
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inside we try to do our best as parents
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to be great stewards of each season but
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sometimes the days do get the best of us
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[Music]
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we’ll use this layer that is solid as
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the foundation
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[Music]
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can you give me a paper towel
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stop taking apart the cake boys
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[Music]
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you don’t want to like that’s nice
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so now we have to figure out
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you should have put that on first
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[Music]
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oh no baby
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[Music]
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one
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two
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yeah yeah
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[Applause]
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[Music]
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it’s over here
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[Music]
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this looks like ladies
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[Music]
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[Music]
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do we have any sprinkles guys yeah
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yeah you see boys
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[Music]
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how does it taste
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I love eating the cake
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[Music]
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this holiday season is filled with
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memories that we want to embrace a Time
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filled with laughter fun and very soft
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skin our family nights aren’t complete
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without a dessert and this time we
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wanted everybody to get in on the fun so
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of course we made a mess
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Dove liquid hand wash kept us clean
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during the process as a family we’ve
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always trusted Dove it has been the
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consistent way that we’ve shown our kids
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how to practice good hygiene and care
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for themselves as individuals but did
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you know that Dove has liquid hand wash
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We Trust of because they’ve been
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consistent over the years they are part
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of our family routine and now with this
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liquid hand wash washing our hands you
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did good today you’re doing good now
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thank you today was a busy day we got
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the kids haircut we had a photo shoot
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and we had a family night we baked a
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little cake together ate it all together
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and taste tested it stop taking apart
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great thank you so much Dove liquid hand
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wash to sponsor in this video and hope
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that your family time with your loved
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ones this year is uh full of thanks girl
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[Music]
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[Music]
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foreign
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[Music]
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