After decades together, could we create a kind of intimacy we never imagined at 30? A few unconventional ideas for making the next chapter our closest yet.
Sex & Relationships
The Silent Cost of Always Being “Fine”
Why our obsession with emotional strength is quietly destroying our real connections.
Why our obsession with emotional strength is quietly destroying our real connections.
6 Things You Should Never Give to a Man No Matter How Long You’ve Been Together
The culture praised you for every single one of them.
The culture praised you for every single one of them.
She’s Telling You What It’s Like to Love You
He is no longer responding to what she actually said.
He is no longer responding to what she actually said.
8 Lies You Must Tell a Narcissist If You Want to Be Happy
Your truth is their ammunition. Why you must stop playing the “honest victim.”
Your truth is their ammunition. Why you must stop playing the “honest victim.”
The Subtle Ways Men Make You Feel Responsible for Their Emotions
He never handed it to you. He just stopped holding it and waited for you to pick it up.
He never handed it to you. He just stopped holding it and waited for you to pick it up.
I Don’t Have a Life Outside of My Relationships, and It Makes Dating a Nightmare!
How building your own purpose can create healthier relationships and emotional balance.
Is relationship codependency affecting your dating life? Learn how to build purpose and maintain healthy emotional balance.
The One Habit That Kills Attraction Faster Than Anything You Say
It’s not about being “needy” or “weak.” It’s the silent reflex most men don’t even know they have.
It’s not about being “needy” or “weak.” It’s the silent reflex most men don’t even know they have.
7 Ways Your Love Can Last Forever
All lovers have their hard times, but after 30 years we know what it takes to survive.
All lovers have their hard times, but after 30 years we know what it takes to survive.
I Started Sleeping Diagonal at Forty-Two and Finally Saw My Marriage
Three women’s stories taught me the bed doesn’t get colder by accident—it gets colder by contract.
Three women’s stories taught me the bed doesn’t get colder by accident—it gets colder by contract.
Love in the Age of Infinite Choices: Have We Forgotten What It Means to Stay?
In an age of endless options, staying has become the rarest act of love.
In an age of endless options, staying has become the rarest act of love.
7 Masculine Traits Modern Women Are Tired Of (That Men Think Make Them Attractive)
They look like strength. They feel like abandonment.
They look like strength. They feel like abandonment.
The Day I Stopped Looking for Love (And Finally Found It)
And I was exhausted.
And I was exhausted.
How to Start Living When Your Life Feels Dead
You don’t need to reinvent your entire life. You need to start participating in it again.
You don’t need to reinvent your entire life. You need to start participating in it again.
Why Narcissists Never Let Go Even After a Breakup
He wasn’t holding on to me. He was holding on to a story that needed me to still be in it.
He wasn’t holding on to me. He was holding on to a story that needed me to still be in it.
The Need Behind a Longer Hug
The hug begins to loosen, but moving away feels too soon.
The hug begins to loosen, but moving away feels too soon.