They’re incredibly capable people.
The Things We Inherit That Never Appear in the Will
Emotional inheritance is considerably more complicated.
Emotional inheritance is considerably more complicated.
What If You Don’t Need Another Breakthrough?
And there’s something quietly heartbreaking about that.
And there’s something quietly heartbreaking about that.
Not Everything You Feel Deserves Your Agreement
I have been absolutely, positively, spectacularly convinced of something that turned out to be complete bullshit.
I have been absolutely, positively, spectacularly convinced of something that turned out to be complete bullshit.
She’s Telling You What It’s Like to Love You
He is no longer responding to what she actually said.
He is no longer responding to what she actually said.
When Coping Looks Like Thriving
Maybe that is precisely why Bali rattled me.
Maybe that is precisely why Bali rattled me.
Don’t Let the Machine Have Your Life
Bali reminded it.
Bali reminded it.
Some Doors Don’t Need to Be Kicked Down. They Need to Stop Being Opened.
Psychology has language for pieces of this.
Psychology has language for pieces of this.
The Devil Doesn’t Need Your Soul. Sometimes Your Attention Is Enough
Modern idolatry is considerably more sophisticated.
Modern idolatry is considerably more sophisticated.
Be Careful What You Rehearse
But truthful is different from rehearsed helplessness.
But truthful is different from rehearsed helplessness.
When His Shame Becomes Her Job
Nothing I do is ever good enough” can sound like the wounded confession of a discouraged man.
Nothing I do is ever good enough” can sound like the wounded confession of a discouraged man.
Alive Is Different From Comfortable
Nothing is burning down.
Nothing is burning down.
Fifty, Unfiltered: An Interview
What have your children had to forgive you for?
What have your children had to forgive you for?
Healing Doesn’t Mean Giving Every Trigger Immediate Access to You
𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘢 𝘥𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘵𝘸𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘳𝘶𝘯𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘱𝘰𝘬𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮.
𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘢 𝘥𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘵𝘸𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘳𝘶𝘯𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘱𝘰𝘬𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮.
I Still Want More
There is wisdom in some of that.
There is wisdom in some of that.
Before We Get on the Plane, I Want to Tell You What I Think Marriage Actually Is
That distinction matters more to me now than it ever has.
That distinction matters more to me now than it ever has.















