On self-deception, change, and choosing to really live.
Sex & Relationships
Every Community Has an Unspoken Dating Rule — And Breaking It Will Get You Quietly Removed
Most singles violate it without ever realizing they did.
Most singles violate it without ever realizing they did.
Pros and Cons of Girls and Boys Night Out
Spending quality time with friends at girls and boys night out is a treasured tradition, providing the chance to unwind, reconnect, and celebrate friendships outside of our regular routines.
Spending quality time with friends at girls and boys night out is a treasured tradition, providing the chance to unwind, reconnect, and celebrate friendships outside of our regular routines.
The Invisible Loop of Self-Sabotage in Relationships
I thought his silence was about rejection — until I recognized my self-sabotage in relationships.
I thought his silence was about rejection — until I recognized my self-sabotage in relationships.
High Stakes Poker Playing With Your Soul
We fell for each other — We also fell for the stakes.
We fell for each other — We also fell for the stakes.
The Fortress I Built to Protect Myself Became My Prison
How hyper-independence and the fear of getting hurt can trick us into choosing isolation over intimacy.
How hyper-independence and the fear of getting hurt can trick us into choosing isolation over intimacy.
The Man Who Called My Burnout a Doorway
When healing language becomes a trap, your instincts may be the only way out.
When healing language becomes a trap, your instincts may be the only way out.
Young Women Be Careful With the Guys You Date!
She trusted him with everything unknowingly, he turned her into a product and sold her to strangers.
She trusted him with everything unknowingly, he turned her into a product and sold her to strangers.
Narcissists Don’t Grieve the Deaths of Their Supply
I saw firsthand what a narcissist does after their primary source of supply dies.
I saw firsthand what a narcissist does after their primary source of supply dies.
Your Nervous System Chose Your Partner — Not Your Heart
What feels like chemistry is sometimes just familiarity wearing a beautiful disguise.
What feels like chemistry is sometimes just familiarity wearing a beautiful disguise.
Here Are the Qualities You Can’t Teach Your Partner
Four things to look for before you fall too deep.
Four things to look for before you fall too deep.
Levels of Intimacy in Communication
Does texting betray a fear of intimacy?
Does texting betray a fear of intimacy?
5 Habits of Attractive Online People
Ever met someone who acts as if reality is negotiable?
Ever met someone who acts as if reality is negotiable?
What Men Don’t Say When They’ve Been Cheated On
There is a particular cruelty in the way our culture frames male betrayal.
There is a particular cruelty in the way our culture frames male betrayal.
How to Stop Playing the Blame Game and Actually Feel Peaceful
Blaming someone else for your own behavior and reactions, has many consequences, and none of them help you, or anyone else.
Blaming someone else for your own behavior and reactions, has many consequences, and none of them help you, or anyone else.
He Brought Flowers. I Was Angry.
How perfect do we expect love to be?
How perfect do we expect love to be?