The Worst Parenting Advice I Ever Received | Dad University

In this video, we’re diving into the worst parenting advice we have ever received. Parenting comes with its fair share of challenges, and advice is often given with good intentions. However, not all advice is created equal, and sometimes following the wrong advice can lead to unexpected consequences.

Join us as we recount instances when well-meaning friends, family members, or even experts offered advice that proved to be ineffective, misleading, or even detrimental to our parenting style and our child’s well-being. We believe that sharing these experiences can help others avoid making similar mistakes and make more informed decisions when it comes to raising their own children.

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Transcript by YouTube, edited slightly with AI. Please forgive discrepancies from original video:

Hey guys, in today’s video, we’re going over some of the worst parenting advice I’ve ever received. When you’re a first-time parent, advice comes from everyone, even when you don’t ask for it – friends, co-workers, and relatives all love to give their opinions. So, here are a few pieces of advice I received that you should definitely avoid following:

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Number one: “Dads don’t change diapers.” I remember an older guy at the gym who knew my wife and me. He saw that my wife was pregnant and pulled me aside one day, saying, “I’ve got four grown children, and I’ve never once changed a diaper. Let her do it.” I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. While this might have been the norm in the 1950s, changing diapers is undoubtedly a team effort. It’s not only a parent’s responsibility but also an opportunity to bond with your baby. The phrase “let her do it” doesn’t resonate well anymore.

Number two: “If your child bites or hits you, bite or hit them back.” This advice is just wrong. You don’t teach your child that biting or hitting is wrong by doing it back to them. Instead, provide them with instruction on what to do – say no and guide them to touch softly or kiss instead of bite. Always focus on providing instructions on what to do rather than what not to do.

Number three: “Spanking is good.” Some people still advocate for spanking, but it’s not a recommended approach. While it might stop bad behavior in the short term, it does more harm than good in the long run. Numerous studies, therapists, and parenting experts are clear about this. There are more effective discipline strategies that you can learn about in our course at Dad University.

Number four: “Too much affection will spoil your child.” This is a misconception. When your baby is crying or your toddler gets upset, providing affection offers security, safety, and comfort – it doesn’t make them needy or spoiled. Snuggling, hugging, and kissing help kids grow up happy and well-adjusted, knowing that their parents love them.

Number five: “You need to get this product.” People will often insist that certain baby products are essential, but in reality, most of them are wants, not needs. Besides diapers, clothes, food, and a safe place to sleep, you shouldn’t feel pressured to buy anything. Focus on what truly matters and save your money until the baby arrives, then evaluate what you really need.

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“Hello, I’m Jason Kreidman, Founder of Dad University

Like many men, I struggled with the transition from single Dude to Married Dad with kids. Transitioning from the single life to becoming a married father of two young children, I found myself overwhelmed and stressed out with the increase in responsibilities and demands. I was taking my stress out on my young children and recognized that I needed to change the way I was doing things if I wanted to be a successful father (and avoid a heart attack). Attempting to take back control, I took my first parenting class and was amazed at the immediate transformation I saw in my own life.

I wanted to go deeper and continue learning, but the majority of parenting resources at the time were tailored to Moms. Recognizing a need for parenting resources for Dads, I started a local meetup group in San Diego just for Dads. The reactions to this meetup group convinced me that there was a need for this information. I proceeded to start a Podcast, and eventually started the Dad University channel on YouTube. Through the podcast, YouTube videos, and website, I was able to spread my message to dads all over the world.

Over the last few years I have seen the growing need for a comprehensive, ongoing education system for fathers to benefit from. As a result I created the Dad University membership. Dad’s across the globe finally have a comprehensive parenting resource to become the best version of

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