A treatise on want in the age of the algorithm.
Sex & Relationships
She Gave Up Her Dreams So I Could Chase Mine — And I Didn’t Even Notice
The moment I realized her sacrifice, everything changed.
The moment I realized her sacrifice, everything changed.
How to Spot “Nice Guy” Narcissists Before They Drain Your Battery to 0%
Why kindness that comes with strings always costs more than cruelty.
Why kindness that comes with strings always costs more than cruelty.
‘It’s Literally Cheaper to Stay Single Than to Go 50/50 Living With a Man’
Nothing matters without equity.
Nothing matters without equity.
The People We Thought We’d Grow Old With
Nobody tells you when you’re living the moments you’ll miss for the rest of your life.
Nobody tells you when you’re living the moments you’ll miss for the rest of your life.
Why Meeting Your Girlfriend’s Friends Feels So Awkward (And How to Handle It)
It starts as a casual hangout. It ends with your personality under public review.
It starts as a casual hangout. It ends with your personality under public review.
The Four Things That Destroy Relationships
(and what to do instead)
(and what to do instead)
The Good Man Deserves Someone Who Actually Wants Him
That someone is not you.
That someone is not you.
They Say Someone Will Walk Into Your Life and Make You Realize Why it Never Worked Out with Anybody Else
And just like that, He stormed into my life and what was meant to be a quick coffee turned into five of the best days of my life.
And just like that, He stormed into my life and what was meant to be a quick coffee turned into five of the best days of my life.
The Unsent Draft in My Notes App
And then, I never sent it.
And then, I never sent it.
Does Cuddling Keep Sex Alive?
Emily Nagoski’s Recommendations for Healthy Partnered Sex.
Emily Nagoski’s Recommendations for Healthy Partnered Sex.
I Miss Being Utterly Lost in the Intoxication of Love
One lady tells her affair story on r/adultery.
One lady tells her affair story on r/adultery.
Faking the Future of Forever in Relationships
The madness of hoping for the best that never comes.
Future faking. This is a tactic that someone uses to keep you hopeful. Stuck. It keeps you staying longer than you should in a relationship that isn’t working for you, at best. Or hurts you, at worst. The promise of a vacation. A special holiday celebration. A shared future together. They promise that these things…
The Advice That Wants You Single
How social media, dating apps, and AI chatbots are compounding a quiet erosion of our capacity for partnership.
How social media, dating apps, and AI chatbots are compounding a quiet erosion of our capacity for partnership.
To Every Woman Who Left
Why leaving a toxic relationship is one of the strongest things a woman can do.
Why leaving a toxic relationship is one of the strongest things a woman can do.
Why We Keep Dating the Wrong Person & How You Can Find the Right Life Partner Now
Discover the hidden relationship patterns that keep you stuck and learn how to build lasting love.
Why do we keep choosing the wrong partners? Discover how to break unhealthy patterns and find the right life partner.