You know that vision you have for your life?
You know the happiness you are seeking?
You know the way.
No one knows better than you how to attain YOUR ultimate destination.
Others might offer guidance, support, and love.
They might expose new thoughts, feelings, or emotions which you were not aware, and might help you make better decisions.
They might provide the lessons they have learned on their own journey.
But only YOU know the way. You can feel your way to your destination.
People who truly love you want you to seek and find happiness.
Your own happiness.
They know their role in your life, and understand that they only support your happiness.
They do not put themselves ahead of you.
They encourage you to be you.
For you, they are most interested in YOUR happiness.
They do this because they are most interested in seeking their own happiness and well-being first.
So they allow you to seek and find your own.
YOU know the way.
Trust your intuition.
People who truly love you understand that their way might not work for you.
They possess egolessness which allows them to allow you to make your own decisions.
They give you permission to find your own happiness.
Because only YOU know the way.
Seek input. Collect information. Receive guidance.
Surround yourself with loving people.
But make your own decisions.
Only YOU know the way.
And the right people will love you even more.
This post was previously published on mikekitko.com.
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