The Classic Moral Dilemma of The Drowning Girl

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This comment was from NickMostly, replying to Joanna Schroeder, on the post “I Can’t Speak for Men and I Shouldn’t Have to”

Words Are Not Fists: What the Twitter Blow-Up Tells Us About Men, Women, and Anger

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“One of [the] childish things adult men must put away is the need to deflect, belittle, or exaggerate women’s anger.”

How My Mother and My Sisters Tried to Make Me Look Like a Monster

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Collin Slattery recounts his mother and sisters, their vicious plan to ruin his life, and the invaluable price of what he gained in order to replace what they took.

Is Homophobia a ‘Phobia?’

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What if straight men are more afraid of similarities than differences?

Do Real Men Drink Dr. Pepper TEN?

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Joel Schwartzberg calls BS on “manly” calories and diet sodas designed “just for men.”

Clocks, Pennies, and the Death of an Old Friend

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Trace Mayer writes an impromptu eulogy for the best 80-year-old, clock-repair man he knew.

How Do I Respectfully Grind With Someone?

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A college boy wonders how to navigate a crowded club and move in for the kill—or just the grind.

Dear John: The Best of 2011

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Is it weird that my neighbor is my OB/GYN? Should I answer the calls from the married professional golfer? Do I owe my father forgiveness? How do I tell my grieving fiancée I ran over her cat?

What’s Your Purpose in Life?

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Men who don’t have a sense of purpose or mission in life are dangerous, Frederick Marx writes.

“Mocked and Misunderstood”: We Must Be Onto Something Big

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Venture Capitalist Fred Wilson sees a high correlation between companies that are ‘mocked and misunderstood’ and those that go on to become breakout successes.

Two New Sections on The Good Men Project: ‘The Issues of Men’s Rights’ and ‘Men and Feminism’

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One thing is clear: The discussion needs to continue.

Why I Loved ‘The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo’

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Lisbeth Salander is a badass, Tom Matlack writes, and she turns the Hollywood hero ideal on its head.

Basketball Is Back! (And so Are Gender Stereotypes!)

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Shaquille O’Neal brings humor, perspective, and scripted generalizations to TNT’s Inside the NBA.

“Words Are A Very Poor Tool For Communication”

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This comment was by MediaHound, in reply to Mark, on the post “Lobbing Grenades Is Easy. Forming Bridges is Hard. Do the Hard Work.”

After 40 Years, What Now?

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Mark D. White turns forty, quotes Tolstoy realizes the meaning of life is up to him, and wonders when “good” is “good enough”

Afraid of Becoming a Man

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Some day soon, Oliver Lee Bateman will have to raise a family, and even though it’s his choice, he’s still scared.