Hugo Schwyzer agrees we should be talking more. But let it be about what healthy, joy-filled, life-enhancing male sexuality looks like.
To Prevent Future Penn States, We Need to Celebrate the Good in Male Sexuality
November 17, 2011 By 47 Comments
Resist the Old Boys and Their Ways
November 14, 2011 By 28 Comments
Hugo Schwyzer argues that the gender preference of the seasoned elite fosters leniency and protection in the name of loyalty.
Sexual Harassment on Campus: It’s a Guy Thing
November 7, 2011 By 36 Comments
Macho culture is driving boys to bully and harass, writes Hugo Schwyzer.
Why Cougars Are Better Than Silver Foxes
November 6, 2011 By 57 Comments
It’s not easy to date a younger woman when you’re an older man, Hugo Schwyzer writes.
We May Be Hotter Than We Know
November 4, 2011 By 28 Comments
A new art exhibit questions our conceptions of male beauty, and Hugo Schwyzer thinks it’s about damn time.
Sexy Halloween Costumes for Girls Don’t Cause Rape
October 30, 2011 By 94 Comments
By encouraging women to wear ‘sexy’ costumes, Hugo Schwyzer writes, we’re selling both men and women short.
Yes, Rape Victims Get Erections, Too
October 29, 2011 By 121 Comments
We need to get over the myth that men are invulnerable to sexual victimization at the hands of women says Hugo Schwyzer.
Guilt Is Good, but Responsibility Is Better
October 24, 2011 By 55 Comments
Hugo Schwyzer argues that being a man should not induce guilt or shame, but rather be the root of responsibility.
Are You Gay or Something? Why It’s So Much Harder When She Wants It More
October 18, 2011 By 90 Comments
Hugo Schwyzer argues that men who are less horny than their female partners are subject to another, more crippling stereotype: they must be gay or something.
GMP Accepts the True Ally Award from Men Stopping Violence
October 17, 2011 By 26 Comments
“That’s awesome, but now we have to go out and continue to earn it.”
Sometimes I Need God to Be Male
October 12, 2011 By 52 Comments
Hugo Schwyzer doesn’t mind a gender-neutral God, but the last thing he wants is for people to think that only a female God can be nurturing and compassionate.
No Gain in the Pain: Self-Injury, Endurance Sports, and Male Narcissism
October 10, 2011 By 7 Comments
Hugo Schwyzer tells about his experiences in and out of the pain of Self injury, Endurance Sports, and Male Narcissism.
Her Number Doesn’t Matter
October 4, 2011 By 55 Comments
Every guy wants to know his partner’s number, but Hugo Schwyzer thinks it’s time for us to stop worrying.
They Always Call Me Sir: Policing, Prison, and Privilege
October 3, 2011 By 20 Comments
Our justice system is racist, Hugo Schwyzer writes, and that needs to change.
Amanda Knox Freed, but the Slut-Shaming Goes On
October 3, 2011 By 79 Comments
When I look at the face of Amanda Knox, I see someone who looks a great deal like many of the students I taught.
The Accidental Rapist
September 26, 2011 By 340 Comments
Just because you’re partner isn’t saying “no,” Hugo Schwyzer writes, it doesn’t mean it’s a “yes.”
“It’s a woman’s job to make her man feel safe — a safe place that doesn’t expect him to do brave things just because he’s a man.”
This is a comment by Kat on the post “A Husband’s Job Is To Create Emotional Safety”.