About Jayson Gaddis

Jayson Gaddis — householder, former psychotherapist, teacher, speaker, writer, relationship specialist, & soul guide is using the vehicle of his marriage and his children to become who he truly is, while expanding his capacity to love. He’s on the planet to help people master the soul lesson burning in their heart, through the vehicle of intimacy and relationship. He’s a husband and part-time stay-at-home Dad getting schooled by his two cosmic kids.

Is Your Man Shut Down? There’s ONE Simple Secret to Get Him to Open Up

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Jayson Gaddis used to be the classic unavailable guy, the one whose heart women tried to melt. But it never worked. And he’s got some insight into why.

3 Mistakes Women Make When Trying to Help Their Husbands

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Women, if the man in your life isn’t responding when you want more out of the relationship, you may be doing something wrong.

The Big Secret To Opening A Woman’s Heart


Jayson Gaddis finds a simple solution for men to make a woman’s emotions feel validated.

2 Huge Relationship Mistakes You Probably Made Last Year – and How to Do Better Today

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Jayson Gaddis explains how these problems may seem small right now – but will only get bigger and erode what you’ve built together.

How To Resolve Conflict Without Talking

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Less reaction, and more creation.

Why Waste Time Arguing Over Who is Right? [Video]


Couples get so caught up in who is right that they lose sight of what really matters.

Why I’m Saying Sorry Doesn’t Cut It When Resolving Conflict [Video Tip]


When working through conflict, does saying “I’m sorry” really work?

2 Simple Statements You Can Make To Break Free From Resentments

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Jayson Gaddis shares how people can get past resentments to strengthen relationships.

4 Things to Do If Your Relationship is Stuck, Flat or Drifting


Long-term relationships grow stagnant and stale, especially after having kids together. But Jayson Gaddis insists there are ways to bring the love back to life.

How I’m Learning To Really Listen To My Wife – In 13 Steps

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“So after ten years, I think I’m finally learning how to listen to my wife. I mean listen. Really listen. I’m humbled at the possibility of turning a corner here.”

Why You’d Rather Have Sex With Someone Else Than Work On Your Marriage


Jayson Gaddis examines some very unexpected causes of infidelity, and gives tips on how to prevent and heal from them.

Being a Backbone for My Kids


Our kids mirror our moods. Jayson Gaddis looks inward when his kids are struggling.

How Porn Impacts Real Intimacy and Real Relationships

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Jayson Gaddis wants to talk about porn use, and the impact it has on your real life relationships.

Why Guys Get Trapped in Soul Sucking Jobs

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3 reasons why it happens. And what you can do about it.

10 Signs I’m Disconnected From Myself

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Jayson Gaddis knows when he’s disconnected. And knows what to do to connect back again.

My Son Wears Pink, He’s Either Gay or a Girl Right?

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Jason Gaddis insists that when we discourage feminine traits in boys and instead only promote outdated masculine ones, we put a gender straightjacket on our boys.