About Jayson Gaddis

Jayson Gaddis — householder, former psychotherapist, teacher, speaker, writer, relationship specialist, & soul guide is using the vehicle of his marriage and his children to become who he truly is, while expanding his capacity to love. He’s on the planet to help people master the soul lesson burning in their heart, through the vehicle of intimacy and relationship. He’s a husband and part-time stay-at-home Dad getting schooled by his two cosmic kids.

4 Things to Do If Your Relationship is Stuck, Flat or Drifting

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Long-term relationships grow stagnant and stale, especially after having kids together. But Jayson Gaddis insists there are ways to bring the love back to life.

How I’m Learning To Really Listen To My Wife – In 13 Steps

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“So after ten years, I think I’m finally learning how to listen to my wife. I mean listen. Really listen. I’m humbled at the possibility of turning a corner here.”

Why You’d Rather Have Sex With Someone Else Than Work On Your Marriage

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Jayson Gaddis examines some very unexpected causes of infidelity, and gives tips on how to prevent and heal from them.

Being a Backbone for My Kids

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Our kids mirror our moods. Jayson Gaddis looks inward when his kids are struggling.

How Porn Impacts Real Intimacy and Real Relationships

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Jayson Gaddis wants to talk about porn use, and the impact it has on your real life relationships.

Why Guys Get Trapped in Soul Sucking Jobs

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3 reasons why it happens. And what you can do about it.

10 Signs I’m Disconnected From Myself

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Jayson Gaddis knows when he’s disconnected. And knows what to do to connect back again.

My Son Wears Pink, He’s Either Gay or a Girl Right?

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Jason Gaddis insists that when we discourage feminine traits in boys and instead only promote outdated masculine ones, we put a gender straightjacket on our boys.

The Sex Lives of New Dads

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Jayson Gaddis’s life changed big time after having one kid, then two.

A Modern Day Hero’s Journey Is What Today’s Boy Needs to Become a Man

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The entire reason we have such a thing as a quarter life crisis, and later a mid-life crisis, is because boys and young men lack meaningful rite-of-passage experiences.

Dear Men and Women, I Won’t Apologize to You

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Jayson Gaddis believes there is a better way than blaming or apologizing to the other sex.

Why Time Outs Don’t Work

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Jayson Gaddis believes that time outs don’t work for parents who are unwilling to put themselves in an adult time out — which is what’s really needed.

Why Men Objectify Women

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“When I check out women, what is really going on with me? Is it just normal because I’m a heterosexual guy that likes women?” Jayson Gaddis explores objectification.

The Single Biggest Obstacle Facing Boys and Men Today

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When men let someone else define manhood for them, instead of using their own intelligence and being the true author of their own life, they end up buying the culture’s narrow version of masculinity without question.

Raising a Boy Using Shame

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“Shame on you.” It’s how we were parented, but it’s not how we should be parenting.

What Happens When We Don’t Teach Boys About Sex?

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Exploring the mess we are in around male sexuality. How did we get here and what on earth do we do?