About Thomas G. Fiffer

Thomas G. Fiffer, Executive Editor at The Good Men Project, is a graduate of Yale and holds an M.A. in creative writing from the University of Illinois at Chicago. He posts regularly on his blog, Tom Aplomb, and serves as Editor of Westport's HamletHub, a local online news and information service. He is also a featured storyteller with MouseMuse Productions and is working on his first novel.

A Father’s Music Brings a Baby Pure Joy

A Fathers Music by tharunet

When dad picks up his guitar, this baby shakes, rattles, and rolls his way right into your heart.

The Simple 3-Step Relationship Reboot

The Simple 3-Step by fromsandtoglass

Just in time for New Year’s, you can resolve to reboot your relationship now, and the best part is, it’s easy.

A New Force to Fight Campus Sexual Assault: Culture of Respect

A New Force by Tulane Public Relations

Dissatisfied with the piecemeal approach to preventing campus sexual assault, a few concerned citizens formed Culture of Respect.

How to Live With Other People

How to live with by wellcast

Wellcast offers help with a skill many adults still haven’t quite mastered.

A Theory on the Role of Love in Abuse

A theory by Eliza

Both abusers and victims claim they love and are loved by their partners. Thomas Fiffer tries his best to explain why.

Are You Using Your Secret Power?

Are You Using by Agustin Ruiz

Thomas Fiffer reminds us that we all possess an untapped power to make the world a better place.

How to Move on and Find Closure

How to Find Closure by Wellcast

When a bad relationship or bad experience is over, people tell us to move on. But how? Wellcast has some answers.

3 Ways You’re Killing Love By Trying to Save It

3 Ways You're by Wicked Sushi

Thomas Fiffer teases out three behaviors that feel like they strengthen relationships but actually destroy them.

Sleep Better to Feel Better

Sleep Better by wellcast

Lack of sleep can turn you into a monster. These 5 simple tips from Wellcast help you rest so you can be your best.

How to Take the Trash out of Your Life

How to Take the Trash by Prince Ea

Prince Ea encourages us to avoid GMOs: the ‘greedy, miserable, obnoxious’ people who dump on us and make us crazy.

A Reminder That Cops Really Can Be the Good Guys

A Reminder by Boynton Beach PD

These generous and compassionate officers on the Boynton Beach police force embody the “serve” in serve and protect.

A Moment of Gratitude

A Moment of Gratitude by DJ Sancho

Watch this boy as he receives a gift he never imagined his cash-strapped mother could give him.

Want to Understand Men? Read This

Want to Understand by Rory McLeod

Thomas Fiffer breaks the code to reveal what really makes men tick.

A Father Captures His Son in Pictures From Birth to 21

A Father Captures by cloddyclips

Kids grow up fast. But a picture a day—for 21 years—can slow the passage of time, at least for a few minutes.

Two Words That Will Make You Happier

Two Words by wellcast

One of the words is ‘you.’ Can you guess the other one?

7 Steps to Surviving Dysfunctional Holiday Gatherings

7 Steps to Surviving by MOVIECLIPS

You’ll thank Thomas Fiffer for this helpful guide to surviving hellish holiday dysfunction.