About Thomas G. Fiffer

Thomas G. Fiffer, Executive Editor at The Good Men Project, is a graduate of Yale University and holds an M.A. in creative writing from the University of Illinois at Chicago. He is a professional writer, speaker, and storyteller with a focus on diagnosing and healing dysfunctional relationships. You can find out more about his publications and services at Thomas G. Fiffer, and connect with him on Facebook and Twitter. His books, Why It Can't Work: Detaching From Dysfunctional Relationships to Make Room for True Love and What Is Love? A Guide for the Perplexed to Matters of the Heart are available on Amazon. He lives in Connecticut and is working on his first novel.

Men (Yes, Men) Talk About Self-Esteem and Body Image

A group of men open up about the impossible standards of masculinity imposed by the media.

5 Ways to Keep Narcissists and Manipulators Out of Your Life

How to spot the red flags that mean you are dating a dangerous, destructive partner.

5 Signs You Might Be in a Dysfunctional and Toxic Relationship

In under 4 minutes, you’ll know if your relationship is healthy or toxic.

The Wounds of Abuse Are Like No Other

Thomas Fiffer finds the magic elixir that heals the hurt of emotional cruelty.

More on Escaping the Friendzone

Wellcasts’s follow up video on how to break free of the friend zone when you want a relationship.

Why I Feel Like Screaming When My Partner Is Being Nice

Thomas Fiffer shines a light on the lingering effects of emotional abuse.

Why You Shouldn’t Catcall

This video cuts through the confusion about catcalling and explains why it’s never OK.

How to Give Someone Bad News

The experts at Wellcast share tips on how to break bad news to family members, friends, and co-workers.

Understanding How You Move Through the Five Stages of Grief

Counselor Carl explains how the five stages of grief overlap and repeat.

Breaking Free From Your Lower Brain

Counselor Carl explains how our lower brain’s reactions control our behavior, even when our upper brain knows better.

Help for Those Considering Suicide

Wellcast offers help during National Suicide Prevention Week.

Mindfulness as Treatment for Anxiety and Depression

Counselor Carl offers a powerful way to help sufferers of depression and anxiety without drugs.

Healing Shame and Fear by Working With Your Inner Child

Counselor Carl shows how healing the wounded child can heal the anxious, depressed, unfulfilled man (or woman).

A 5-Minute Guide to Understanding Depression

Depression affects more than 6 million men in America each year—and more who don’t recognize its symptoms or are ashamed to seek treatment.

Come Hear Our Stories—LIVE!

These stories will enter your hearts and leave you transformed.

Are You Being Fooled by a Covert Narcissist?

Ross Rosenberg pulls the mask off to help you identify narcissists masquerading as caring, kind, compassionate professionals, friends, and family members.