About Thomas G. Fiffer

Thomas G. Fiffer, Executive Editor at The Good Men Project, is a graduate of Yale University and holds an M.A. in creative writing from the University of Illinois at Chicago. He is a professional writer, speaker, and storyteller with a focus on diagnosing and healing dysfunctional relationships. You can find him at Tom Aplomb, and connect with him on Facebook and Twitter. His books, Why It Can't Work: Detaching from dysfunctional relationships to make room for true love and What Is Love? A Guide for the Perplexed to Matters of the Heart are available on Amazon. He is also working on his first novel.

Bruce Lee Is Back—in a 5-Year-Old Who’s Got His Moves

Bruce Lee Is Back by Bruce Ryu

Watch Bruce Ryu’s amazing 5-year-old son match Bruce Lee’s nunchaku scene from “Game of Death” move for move.

U.S. Soldiers Lip Sync ‘Call Me Maybe’

Call Me Maybe by Memmet Mama

Check out the versatility of our armed forces in this hilarious video.

Going Out With a Bang

NASA Messenger by NASA

NASA’s Messenger spacecraft ended its 11-year mission by crashing into Mercury.

Bad Things You Should Do in a Healthy Relationship

Bad Things by Ana Kasparian

These relationship don’ts are dos according to Christian Lopez and Ana Kasparian, who seem to have a pretty good thing going.

How to Build Trust in Your Relationship

Hot to Build Trust by Mo Riza

Marriage guru John Gottman explains that trust is built in ‘sliding door’ moments. Seize them, or your partner feels betrayed.

Why a Permanent Positive Attitude Just Might Keep You Down

Why a Permanent by Andrew

The image you’re projecting may be preventing you from getting the resources and attention you need to create true happiness.

Setting Boundaries for Healthy Relationships

Setting Boundaries by Tony Webster

Saying no doesn’t mean, “I don’t love you.” It means, “I want to be treated with respect.”

Take Back Your Life After Being Rejected

Take Back Your Life by Wellcast

Everyone gets rejected. Here are 3 simple steps to staying health, happy, and in control.

Delightful Daddy-Daughter Duet

Duet by Dads on Duty

Who says dads can’t do the singing thing?

How to Choose When There’s No Right Answer

How to Choose by David Goehring

When confronting difficult life decisions, framing choices as right and wrong isn’t always helpful.

How to Balance Your Present and Future Self

Balancing by Wellcast

Are you having trouble delaying gratification? Wellcast offers strategies so you can have your fun and focus on your goals, too.

3 Ways You’re Being a A**hole but Probably Don’t Realize It

3 Ways by Surian Soosay

“Who me? I’m a good guy. I don’t need to read this article.” “Yeah. Right.”

Dear Future Generations: Sorry (We Messed Up the World)

Dear Future by Prince Ea

Prince Ea offers an apology to future generations for leaving them with a world that will be nothing like the one we knew.

What to Do When You’re Embarrassed

What Do When You're by wellcast

Whether you’re in middle school, your company conference room, out on a date, or traveling abroad, embarrassing situations will arise. How you deal with them makes all the difference.

9 Signs You’re With Your Toxic Soul Mate

9 Toxic by Do Personality Test

How can you know if someone who seems ideal for you is really unhealthy?

Seeing Through the Mist

Seeing Through the Mist by Thomas Fiffer

For Thomas Fiffer, a misty morning drive brings back memories of heartbreak and summons a vision for the future.