About Thomas G. Fiffer

Thomas G. Fiffer, Executive Editor at The Good Men Project, is a graduate of Yale University and holds an M.A. in creative writing from the University of Illinois at Chicago. He is a professional writer, speaker, and storyteller with a focus on diagnosing and healing dysfunctional relationships. You can find him at Tom Aplomb, and connect with him on Facebook and Twitter. His books, Why It Can't Work: Detaching from dysfunctional relationships to make room for true love and What Is Love? A Guide for the Perplexed to Matters of the Heart are available on Amazon. He is also working on his first novel.

4 Simple Words That Will Supercharge Your Work Life

4 Simple Words by Jason Rogers

Reach for the stars—and grab them—with Thomas Fiffer’s four-word mantra.

7 Signs You’re in an Emotionally Abusive Relationship

7 Signs by Feliciano Guimaraes

There’s a big difference between a bad relationship and an emotionally abusive one. Adam LaDolce explains.

Are You Being ‘Hoovered’?

Are You Being by Mark H Evans

How narcissists suck victims back into destructive relationships—and how to stop it.

Instant Intimacy—The Second Red Flag of Narcissism

Instant Intimacy by GotCredit

If you’re hearing about marriage, houses, kids, and how you’re soulmates on the first or second date, watch out. You’re likely in the grip of narcissistic manipulation.

How to Stop Your Anger Before It Hurts You and Others

How to Stop Anger by Ryan Hyde

Counselor Carl shares 7 simple steps for defusing dangerous anger before it’s too late.

Could a Robot Make Your Relationship Better?

HUMANS synth on display

What would happen if there were a machine that looked human, but could remember every word you ever said? AMC’s new show “Humans” premiering on Sunday, June 28th at 9/8c offers us a chance to find out.

A Wife Surprises Her Husband on Their 7th Anniversary

A Wife Surprises by Rosario Lantz

There are many ways to keep romance alive … but this one takes the (wedding) cake.

Tears and Comfort

Tears and Comfort by Joel Bombardier

We are born with sacred water inside us. Releasing tears is the soul’s call for help.

Pizza Hut Just Reinvented Movie Night

Pizza Hut Just by Technology News

You order a pizza, and a movie projector comes with it. Can you top that?

The Roots of Codependency

The Roots of by Counselor Carl

Counselor Carl explains how codependency starts in childhood.

The Joy of Fatherhood

The Joy of by Rod&Heidi

Witness the power of the father-child connection as this dad lip syncs a spiritual song for his baby. ___ Photo—Rod&Heidi !!!/YouTube

Rendering

Rendering by Dan Brown

Thomas Fiffer reflects on the transformative power of storytelling.

Watch Disability Transform Into Talent

Watch Disability by America's Got Talent

Drew Lynch stutters. And he’s a successful comedian. So how does that work?

What Is Transgender?

What Is Transgender by transmermaid

A moving and informative explanation of one person’s transgender experience.

What Is a Relationship Bond?

What Is by Bipin Gupta

Thomas Fiffer shares a thought-provoking observation about the bond that holds relationships together.

Sane Advice on Managing Anger

Sane Advice by Denise PS

Anger can be overwhelming. Counselor Carl breaks down how to keep calm and carry on.