About Thomas G. Fiffer

Thomas G. Fiffer, Executive Editor at The Good Men Project, is a graduate of Yale University and holds an M.A. in creative writing from the University of Illinois at Chicago. He is a professional writer, speaker, and storyteller with a focus on diagnosing and healing dysfunctional relationships. You can find him at Tom Aplomb, and connect with him on Facebook and Twitter. His books, Why It Can't Work: Detaching from dysfunctional relationships to make room for true love and What Is Love? A Guide for the Perplexed to Matters of the Heart are available on Amazon. He is also working on his first novel.

A Time-Lapse Video Made From Still Photographs

A Time-Lapse by Vimeo

Dustin Farrell stitched together raw still photographs of the Arizona and Utah landscape to create the most amazing time-lapse nature video you’ve ever seen.

Online Therapy for How to Help an Alcoholic or Drug Addict

Online Therapy by Jeffrey

Do you love an alcoholic or an addict? Counselor Carl explains how caring for yourself is the healthiest thing you can do—for you and your partner.

Living With Awareness

Living With Awareness by Thomas Fiffer

For Thomas Fiffer, a walk through nature revealed some deep spiritual truths.

Like Fathers, Like Sons

Like Father Like Son by Entertainment Channel

Check out this heartwarming collection of photographs of dads and their boys.

10 Obvious Signs of Emotionally Abusive Relationships

10 Obvious Signs by maxvideoxz

If you’re experiencing these dynamics in your relationship, you’re dealing with emotional abuse.

Returning Soldier Surprises Wife and Son at the Parade

Returning Soldier by Military Surprises

This Rose Bowl reunion will touch your heart.

PTSD and the War at Home: A Soldier’s Story of Return and Recovery

PTSD and the War at Home by DINFOS

Sgt Billy Caviness, who was wounded in Afghanistan, recounts his battle with post-traumatic stress disorder.

Top Tips for Kid-Safe Web Surfing

Top Tips by wellcast

Wellcast offers guidance for parents to keep kids safe online.

This Baby’s Laugh Will Make Your Day

Buzz and the Dandelions by Tom Fletcher

Tom Fletcher put baby Buzz on his back and started blowing on dandelions. Buzz couldn’t stop laughing, and neither will you.

The Dangerous Appeal of Dysfunctional Partners

Why Dysfunctional by Quinn Dombrowski

Thomas Fiffer explains the exceptional draw and destructive impact of partners who are determined to change you.

How Assertive Communication Can Save Your Relationship

Assertive Communication by Counselor Carl

Counselor Carl explains the four communication styles and shows how assertiveness is the key to avoiding dysfunctional dynamics. Which one are you?

Building Intimate Relationships That Last

Building Intimate by Michael Coghlan

Thomas Fiffer talks relationships with Rick Gabrielly on “The Marriage Boss” podcast.

The Lie Behind #All Lives Matter

The Lie by All-Nite Images

When you say “All Lives Matter,” you’re saying racism doesn’t exist.

Beef, Bacon, Beer, and BBQ—What Could Be Better?

Beef, bacon by BarbecueWeb2

It’s grilling season, and the BBQ Pit Boys have cooked up beer can bacon burgers—a hearty recipe that can’t be beat.

A Son, a Mother, a Camera, and a Dream

A son a mother by alexnorgay

Alex Norgay’s mother is single and he believes “she deserves a good man.” So he did this.

Reparenting Your Inner Child

Reparenting by Keoni Cabral

Counselor Carl lights the path to healing childhood wounds.