About Thomas G. Fiffer

Thomas G. Fiffer, Executive Editor at The Good Men Project, is a graduate of Yale University and holds an M.A. in creative writing from the University of Illinois at Chicago. He is a professional writer, speaker, and storyteller with a focus on diagnosing and healing dysfunctional relationships. You can find out more about his publications and services at Thomas G. Fiffer, and connect with him on Facebook and Twitter. His books, Why It Can't Work: Detaching From Dysfunctional Relationships to Make Room for True Love and What Is Love? A Guide for the Perplexed to Matters of the Heart are available on Amazon. He lives in Connecticut and is working on his first novel.

Come Hear Our Stories—LIVE!

August Storytelling for Post

These stories will enter your hearts and leave you transformed.

Are You Being Fooled by a Covert Narcissist?

Covert Narcissist by anoldent

Ross Rosenberg pulls the mask off to help you identify narcissists masquerading as caring, kind, compassionate professionals, friends, and family members.

WTF Is Puberty?

WTF Is Puberty by TomSka

TomSka tells you everything you need to know about puberty in 7 minutes.

Strategies for Dealing With Shame and Guilt

Shame and Guilt by Counselor Carl

Counselor Carl explains guilt, toxic guilt, and shame and how toxic guilt and shame often have their roots in childhood.

Why Do Some Smart People Keep Making the Same Dumb Mistakes?

Why Do Some Smart by B Rosen

Counselor Carl offers a five-minute video course in emotional intelligence.

Do You Remember Your First Love?

TGF Storytelling GMP

Thomas Fiffer tells a heartening tale of young love, tragic loss, and unexpected redemption—performed at The Good Men Project LIVE Storytelling in New York City.

A New Definition of Self-Care to Improve Your Health

Manage Your Stress by Bob Peters

Self-care is more than the occasional relaxing bath. Counselor Carl shows how taking care of yourself on every level lowers stress and increases self-esteem.

What Men Can Expect With a Female Covert Narcissist

Man holds his head down in sadness

The host of Narcissist Support was flooded with requests to talk about what men experience with a narcissistic female partner. Here goes.

4 Simple Words That Will Supercharge Your Work Life

4 Simple Words by Jason Rogers

Reach for the stars—and grab them—with Thomas Fiffer’s four-word mantra.

7 Signs You’re in an Emotionally Abusive Relationship

7 Signs by Feliciano Guimaraes

There’s a big difference between a bad relationship and an emotionally abusive one. Adam LaDolce explains.

Are You Being ‘Hoovered’?

Are You Being by Mark H Evans

How narcissists suck victims back into destructive relationships—and how to stop it.

Instant Intimacy—The Second Red Flag of Narcissism

Instant Intimacy by GotCredit

If you’re hearing about marriage, houses, kids, and how you’re soulmates on the first or second date, watch out. You’re likely in the grip of narcissistic manipulation.

How to Stop Your Anger Before It Hurts You and Others

How to Stop Anger by Ryan Hyde

Counselor Carl shares 7 simple steps for defusing dangerous anger before it’s too late.

Could a Robot Make Your Relationship Better?

HUMANS synth on display

What would happen if there were a machine that looked human, but could remember every word you ever said? AMC’s new show “Humans” premiering on Sunday, June 28th at 9/8c offers us a chance to find out.

A Wife Surprises Her Husband on Their 7th Anniversary

A Wife Surprises by Rosario Lantz

There are many ways to keep romance alive … but this one takes the (wedding) cake.

Tears and Comfort

Tears and Comfort by Joel Bombardier

We are born with sacred water inside us. Releasing tears is the soul’s call for help.