About Thomas G. Fiffer

Thomas G. Fiffer, Executive Editor at The Good Men Project, is a graduate of Yale and holds an M.A. in creative writing from the University of Illinois at Chicago. He posts regularly on his blog, Tom Aplomb, and serves as Editor of Westport's HamletHub, a local online news and information service. He is also a featured storyteller with MouseMuse Productions and is working on his first novel.

Why We Love—a Call for Submissions to The Good Men Project

call for subs why we love

Everyone loves. We want your love stories. The who, the how much, and most important, the why.

Love Has No Labels

Love Has No Labels by Ad Council

Watch what happens when the skeletons step out from behind the screen.

How to Stop People Pleasing in 2 Minutes Flat

How to Stop by Dr Les

This clever two-minute video shows you how to reverse your people pleasing and start making yourself a priority.

5 Lies That Keep Us Stuck in Dysfunctional Relationships

5 Lies by Peter

Thomas Fiffer believes that dysfunctional relationships are delusional and nails the five lies that stop us from leaving.

How to Deal With Passive-Aggressive People

How to Deal by Dan OConnor

You can’t change their behavior, but you can change how they behave around you.

The Perfect Dad and Newborn Moment

The Perfect Dad by lovemelovemypug

If you’re looking for 60 seconds of pure rapture, this is it.

13 Things You Need to Know When She Doesn’t Want to Bone You

Friend Zone to Bone Zone

It’s time guys stopped seeing ‘The Friend Zone’ as some awful hell where women put men, and bone up on what’s really happening when she says no to sex.

A Brave New World of Resolving Conflict

A Brave New by Maik Pereira

Can a new system of moderated, virtual, face-to-face interaction help resolve conflicts among peers?

5 Sexy Reasons Your Guy Isn’t Ready to Commit … Yet

5 Reasons Your Guy by Will Foster

If your man is hesitating on monogamy or marriage, his reasons for waiting could make him the one.

You Are Loved

You are loved by momo

Thomas Fiffer talks about where love really lives on the day of romance.

This Man Can Move His Body

This Man Can by David LaChappelle Studio

Watch ballet star Sergei Polunin move his body to Hozier’s ‘Take Me to Church’ in a way that will move your heart.

5 Ways We Screw Up Unconditional Love

5 Guiding Principles by Andy Rennie

Thomas Fiffer wants you to get unconditional love right, so you don’t break your heart trying.

It’s Not Hip to Delete Your Tweets

Twitter Cartoon by Bill Day

You can sanitize your Twitter account, but it won’t remove the stain of prejudice.

Attention Writers: We Want More Great Sex … and Relationships Content

S&R call for submissions

Call for Submissions: Love, Sex, and Relationships

4 Qualities That Make Introverts Great Leaders

4 Qualities by wellcast

Wellcast dispels the myth that introverts can’t be great leaders and reveals their innate and special strengths.

Do You Want to Talk Seriously About Men?

Do You Want to Talk by Ton Haex

Thomas Fiffer challenges the media to engage in a serious, two-sided conversation about the roles and responsibilities of men and women in breaking the cycle of violence and abuse.