About Thomas G. Fiffer

Thomas G. Fiffer, Executive Editor at The Good Men Project, is a graduate of Yale and holds an M.A. in creative writing from the University of Illinois at Chicago. He posts regularly on his blog, Tom Aplomb, and serves as Editor of Westport's HamletHub, a local online news and information service. He is also a featured storyteller with MouseMuse Productions and is working on his first novel.

It’s Too, Darn Hot

Too Darn Hot by Daniel Jones

Who says guys can’t think on their feet? Watch the Fox 10 weatherman’s improvisational feat.

Being a Dad—Babies’ First Moments

Being a Dad by One Born Every Minute

Fatherhood happens gradually, then suddenly. These midwives shatter the stereotype of men never expressing emotion or shedding tears.

21 Things Men Think About When They’re Not Thinking About Sex

21 Things Men by Mike Licht

Thomas Fiffer takes us inside the male mind and finds there’s more than just that one thought in there.

Talking About Mental Health With Your Kids

Talking about by time to change

The mental health talk is as important as the sex talk, but many parents still avoid it.

The 5 Hidden Triggers in Every Relationship

5 Hidden Triggers by Aidan Morgan

Thomas Fiffer identifies 5 loaded guns that threaten to blow your relationship apart.

For the Love of Cats and Dads

For the love by Sho Ko

Can a cat make a man cuter? You bet!

Is Your Relationship Mentally Ill?

Is Your Relationship by PsycheTruth

“It’s not me. And it’s not you. It’s us.” PsycheTruth debunks the DSM’s addition of ‘relational disorder’ to the growing pantheon of mental afflictions.

My Dad’s Amazing Easter Island Snowman

My Dad's Amazing by zaraknowlandzk

A child captures his father’s extraordinary snow sculpture on film.

Inside the Conversation: What We Talk About When We Talk About Love

What We Talk About by Dennis Skley

Our writers have something to say about love … and we take you inside their conversation.

5 Ways to Stay in Love

5 Ways to Stay by Steven S

When the love is there but the thrill is gone, these five fire starters can help you rapidly rekindle your romance.

Holy Volcano, Batman! Massive Eruption Caught on Film

Holy Volcano by bacobjee

How many times have you watched a volcano blow its top?

Who Needs Teens to Have Fun When You Have Your Dad

Who Needs Teens by simran menezes

This totally unself-conscious dad is the life of the party—and his family knows it.

You Can Move From Dating to Love With One Simple Change

How to Move by Kerem Tapani Gultekin

Thomas Fiffer may have found the dating game-changer. Care to give it a try?

The Top 10 Things to Stop Caring About in 2015

Top 10 Things by Alessandro Valli

Thomas Fiffer doesn’t care if you don’t like this list.

Introducing ‘Let’s Talk Ethics’

Introducing Ask by Ansel Edwards

Here’s your chance to get guidance from The Good Men Project on the tough questions you face every day in your personal and professional lives.

4 Ways to Be More Assertive

4 Ways by watchwellcast

Assertive people get what they want without bullying, nagging, or manipulating. Here’s how you do it.