Thomas Fiffer poses the one question that just might save your next relationship.
Thomas G. Fiffer, Executive Editor at The Good Men Project, is a graduate of Yale and holds an M.A. in creative writing from the University of Illinois at Chicago. He posts regularly on his blog, Tom Aplomb, and serves as Editor of Westport's HamletHub, a local online news and information service. He is also a featured storyteller with MouseMuse Productions and is working on his first novel.
Some boys grow up and never quite feel like men. The Art of Manliness says you feel like a man when you start acting like one and offers some manly advice on how to begin.
For anyone wondering if you’re codependent or with someone who is, this short video provides answers.
Part poetry, part PSA, part pure genius, Andrew Gray’s riveting riff on why men don’t respect women and how to change it will leave you speechless.
Two spoken word poets take on the tawdry, tired, and often terrible tips for pleasing men found in women’s magazines and ask, “What about me? What about my body? What about my pleasure?”
Have you been burned by ‘love’? Thomas Fiffer identifies five red flags you’re not likely to be looking for at the start of an intimate relationship.
Thomas Fiffer explains that making sex a reward for a man’s good behavior not only cheapens the experience but also devalues the relationship.
Stereotypes are damaging to both men and women. Thomas Fiffer offers a simple way to stop, reframe, and rethink some of the assumptions we make about men. And it works the other way, too.
Thomas Fiffer points out the #1 mistake we make when our partner complains about us and offers a 3-step program for successful conflict resolution.
Thomas Fiffer reverses the genders in an article about abuse written for women to expose the euphemisms we use when women abuse men.
Once Man gives in to the urge and gets a cat, he’ll never be the same.
Do expectations of men make it harder for men with disabilities in the dating scene?the
Because there’s something funny about two young men acting out the conversation of two 60 year-old women.
Adam Hartley co-founder of The Hero Round Table and new Good Men Project Contributor, asks us to empower victims of bullying.
Chris Osterndorf wants to remind famous guys like Shia LaBeouf that being an actor doesn’t mean you should get away with treating people badly.
From public officials making offensive comments about private citizens, to private citizens making the same about public officials, bigotry and racism will not be tolerated.
Nearly everyone experiences some degree of trauma in their lives. Elisabeth Corey asks if sexual abuse survivors are really so totally different from everyone else?
‘Birdman’ encapsulates almost every classic male protagonist from Icarus through Faust, Charles Foster Kane, Willy Loman, Stanley Kowalski, Jake Gittes, Tony Montana…
What we say and show kids can often be two completely different things
Everyone talks about recycling, but what about re-purposing existing items? Shipping container to lunch counter – the ultimate re-purpose!
James Blakely was arrested in Idaho protesting for LGBTQ rights. Three months later, he had the opportunity to see two dear friends married in the courthouse. Tears of joy abounded.
Tor Constantino shares some of the future phrases he dreads hearing from his kids.
Hank Zona reads us parents the riot act for the negative impact we have on our children in Part I of his three-part series on adults and youth sports.
Hollywood heavyweight Paul Lazarus shifts gears and draws attention to a mind-bendingly brilliant invention that could save the lives of hundreds of millions.
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After 1000 punches, 1000 kicks, 500 knees and 500 elbows—every day— Thai Nguyen has an insight or two he’d like to share about fighting.
Jordan Gray was back and forth on whether or not he wanted to have children, so he interviewed 50 fathers to hear what they had to say.
A 12-step guide to surviving infidelity.