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About Natalie Vartanian

Natalie Vartanian is a certified life coach, writer, speaker, workshop facilitator and an expert when it comes to sex and relationships. She knows it’s possible to have amazing love in an unconventional way. She works with individuals and couples to build better relationships and help them amplify the communication and intimacy, which always results in better sex. She has also worked in organizations such as Google to develop personal development curriculum and present around the importance of designing relationships in the classroom to educators, as well as personal leadership for education outreach professionals. You can find her at http://nataliethecoach.com. Also, sign up for her newsletter and get an in-depth worksheet to start designing your ideal relationship!

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  1. Beautifully said, Natalie.

    Many men and women wait to do these things until they are feeling the love from other and not one second before.

    It is these things that CAUSE those feelings of love. Someone has to go first! Let it be me.

    Steve

    • You make such a great point about going first Steve. It reminds me of the analogies that we are the architects of our lives – what we do, how we are being really creates the outcomes.

      I have found this time and time again when in a situation … If I am not happy with what is going on or want to change the energy, I do something different and voila! I get something different.

      Thanks for commenting and sharing!
      Natalie

  2. Dana Leigh Lyman says:

    I love how proactive this advice is. I feel like too many people sit around bored and don’t do anything until they hit a snapping point, all the while wondering where the magic went.

    Reminds me of this quote: “When two people meet and fall in love, there’s a sudden rush of magic. Magic is just naturally present then. We tend to feed on that gratuitous magic without striving to make any more. One day we wake up and find that the magic is gone. We hustle to get it back, but by then it’s usually too late, we’ve used it up. What we have to do is work like hell at making additional magic right from the start. It’s hard work, but if we can remember to do it, we greatly improve our chances of making love stay.”
    ― Tom Robbins, Still Life with Woodpecker

    More than anything I love this advice because it brings happiness and fulfillment not just for the couple but for the individuals within the couple which is so essential and which people often kind of forget about on their road to being the “perfect couple”.

    • Dana – I love the quote you mentioned. So true!! We are responsible and what we put out we get back. Which is why I love this piece of the quote:

      “What we have to do is work like hell at making additional magic right from the start. It’s hard work, but if we can remember to do it, we greatly improve our chances of making love stay.”

      Thanks for sharing my dear!
      Natalie

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