We are forgiven if we got the idea that the feminist movement is about men behaving badly about sex. It’s not.
The Ongoing Struggle to Create a Marriage of Equals
Why it’s hard to change gender-based ideas in marriages between men and women.
Why it’s hard to change gender-based ideas in marriages between men and women.
Your Marriage Vows Do Not Entitle You to Anything
You need “rules” for how to work things out in your marriage.
You need “rules” for how to work things out in your marriage.
How You Relate in Dating Is Not the Same as How You Relate in Marriage
Dating is about self-presentation, self-protection, and partner evaluation.
Dating is about self-presentation, self-protection, and partner evaluation.
For Your Marriage to Work, Commit to Your Relationship
Creating a relationship is a process.
Creating a relationship is a process.
How to Flourish in Marriage While Being Your Own Person
Let's get rid of the business model of marriage.
Let’s get rid of the business model of marriage.
How to Correct and Inform Your Husband
How to enhance your relationship and affirm yourself as an individual.
How to enhance your relationship and affirm yourself as an individual.
When Love Dies
How does it happen? In phases.
How does it happen? In phases.
Are You Entitled to What You Want From Your Partner?
Relationship "needs" are sometimes just demands that must be fulfilled.
Relationship “needs” are sometimes just demands that must be fulfilled.
How You Interact Is Unique to Your Relationship
Your job is to recognize when you are not acting in a straightforward manner—when you are reacting.
Your job is to recognize when you are not acting in a straightforward manner—when you are reacting.
Anatomy of a Marital Conflict
It's more than just a disagreement.
It’s more than just a disagreement.
What Are You Really Saying When You Call Me That?
The idea that when men act badly toward women, it is some aberration because “He is basically a good guy” confirms one of our most pervasive biases.
The idea that when men act badly toward women, it is some aberration because “He is basically a good guy” confirms one of our most pervasive biases.
How to Create a Transformational Relationship
...not a transactional one.
…not a transactional one.
Do Self-Help Books About Relationships Really Help?
It's typically women who read the books, not men.
It’s typically women who read the books, not men.
When Your Mentally Ill Spouse Does Not Want to Get Better
Maintaining your autonomy and not resorting to self-destructive actions like avoidance or retaliation is important in living with a mentally ill person.
Maintaining your autonomy and not resorting to self-destructive actions like avoidance or retaliation is important in living with a mentally ill person.
How To Have Good Sex, and Be a Good Man
Partnered sex is great. Take the time to get really good at it.
Partnered sex is great. Take the time to get really good at it.