My appearance changed significantly. I don’t have six pack but my shoulders got broader, my muscles more visible, my face got more sharp features and for the first time in a long time I’ve felt somewhat sexy and desirable.
Help, I Keep Falling in Love With People I Can’t Have!
It feels like I’m some damaged, leftover loser who keeps gravitating to people who don’t want me.
It feels like I’m some damaged, leftover loser who keeps gravitating to people who don’t want me.
How Do We Make Sex Work While We’re Separated?
It seems like there are completely different sets of things that turn us on.
It seems like there are completely different sets of things that turn us on.
My Marriage Is Completely Sexless. Is It Ok to Sleep With Someone Else?
I am very sexually frustrated.
I am very sexually frustrated.
Am I Wrong for Being Frustrated With My Fiancée?
We had been looking at buying a home and have saved a significant amount for a downpayment.
We had been looking at buying a home and have saved a significant amount for a downpayment.
How Do I Make Peace With Being Forever Alone?
There are happy singles, people who feel no need to look for a relationship which aren’t aro or ace, so why couldn’t it be me as well?
There are happy singles, people who feel no need to look for a relationship which aren’t aro or ace, so why couldn’t it be me as well?
How Do I Stop Wasting My Time Trying to Meet People?
I wasted a lot of time dating toxic and incompatible women.
I wasted a lot of time dating toxic and incompatible women.
How Do I Take off These Rose-Colored Glasses?
After getting out of *another* relationship that turned scary + abusive 4 years 5 months ago, I stopped dating until I could get to a better place (in all senses of the phrase).
After getting out of *another* relationship that turned scary + abusive 4 years 5 months ago, I stopped dating until I could get to a better place (in all senses of the phrase).
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Dating Advice Lightning Round
Sometimes I get letters that don’t merit a response or are so short that they aren’t practical for a full column. So today we’re going to clear a few out in an advice lightning round…
Sometimes I get letters that don’t merit a response or are so short that they aren’t practical for a full column. So today we’re going to clear a few out in an advice lightning round…
How Do I Become More Than “The Funny Fat Friend”?
A woman I was into and flirting with, said I was “gentle and wise.”
A woman I was into and flirting with, said I was “gentle and wise.”
It’s Impossible for Me to Meet New People!
We live in a world where ladies would rather be approached by a bear than a guy after all, but I’m too unattractive for them to approach me.
We live in a world where ladies would rather be approached by a bear than a guy after all, but I’m too unattractive for them to approach me.
My Boyfriend Is Growing Distant. Is His ADHD to Blame?
He told me straight away that he has a child, and has had ADHD most his life, he is taking doctor prescribed medication to help with the ADHD.
He told me straight away that he has a child, and has had ADHD most his life, he is taking doctor prescribed medication to help with the ADHD.
Help, My Friend’s Life Makes Me Feel Worse About My Own!
Despite my best efforts, I’ve still never had anything that could be called a relationship.
Despite my best efforts, I’ve still never had anything that could be called a relationship.
Why Should I Bother Dating in the First Place?
Never had more than a first date, never been kissed, never so much as held hands or had long lingering gazes with someone of the opposite sex.
Never had more than a first date, never been kissed, never so much as held hands or had long lingering gazes with someone of the opposite sex.
We Aren’t Having Sex. Is It Ok That I’m Ok With It?
My partner and I have been together around five years now, and I’ve been around the block enough to know that the novelty of sex with a new partner fades.
My partner and I have been together around five years now, and I’ve been around the block enough to know that the novelty of sex with a new partner fades.
Do I Need to Lower My Standards?
How do I stop writing off people so easily based on one characteristic?
How do I stop writing off people so easily based on one characteristic?