Dear John addresses porn addiction, being in love with someone’s spouse, and a surprise tattoo.
Dear John: Just Friends Again?
Dear John addresses the so-called “friend zone”, offers advice to a man bothered by a prejudiced coworker, and talks about a tricky matter of professional ethics.
Dear John: Compromising Positions
“Neither one of us has a lot of sexual experience, but we’ve had enough to know what we like.”
Dear John: Let Sleeping Dogs Lie. And Lying Dogs Sleep.
Dear John, I recently reconnected with an old college friend after not being in touch for over twenty-five years. (We are both men.) As we were reminiscing over a few beers, we got to talking about a situation that was the cause of a lot of heartbreak for me back in the day, but…
Dear John: I Think My Neighbor is Cheating On His Wife
Do I tell his wife? Can I ask my cousin for that heirloom? And how do I tell my boyfriend he doesn’t need to be jealous?
Dear John: There Was a Man Watching a Violent Film in Front of My Daughter
Why won’t my formerly-divorced boyfriend commit to me? How do I stop him from watching lude videos on the train? Why do people think I have to agree with their political ideas?
Dear John: My Parents Won’t Let Me Raise My Child in a Gender-Neutral Environment
My parents are at odds with my belief in gender-neautral child raising.
Dear John: My Roommate Slept With the Girl I Like
Is my anger toward my roommate justified if he slept with a girl that didn’t know I liked her? How can I make my wife happy on Valentine’s Day? Should I lie to my parents about my college major?
Dear John: Should I Work With the Woman I Had an Affair with?
Is it smart to work in the same place as the woman I had an affair with? How do I tell my friends that their support isn’t enough? Is my son’s teacher fair game?
Dear John: I’m in Love with My Best Friend’s Girl
Do I tell my best friend that I’m in love with his girlfriend? Should I share my liberal beliefs with my conservative in-laws? How do I tell my wife I don’t like the music she listens to?
Dear John: Does He Care I Won’t Sleep With Him?
Is my boyfriend lying when he says it’s OK that I don’t want to have sex? Can a relationship work if we’re on opposite ends of the world? What do I do when my neighbor steals my trash?
Dear John: I Thought I Was Straight
Why do I have feelings for another man if I’m straight? Should I tell my friend they ruined my wedding? How do I let people know my husband passed away?
Dear John: I Can’t Stop Stealing
Why can’t I stop taking what’s not mine? How do I help my fiancé if he is in denial about his health? Why won’t my boyfriend be intimate?
Dear John: The Best of 2011
Is it weird that my neighbor is my OB/GYN? Should I answer the calls from the married professional golfer? Do I owe my father forgiveness? How do I tell my grieving fiancée I ran over her cat?
Dear John: Condoms for My Son?
Why is my ex-husband giving our son a condom? How do I get my co-worker to stop saying “Merry Christmas?” Who should I go to the New Year’s Eve party with?
Dear John: ‘I Do’ to ‘I Did’
Can’t my sister see she and her husband have to stay together for their kids? Why is my husband obsessed with teaching our son to fight? Is posting our arguments on Facebook worth breaking up over?