Five years ago today, I didn’t want to go home. And I sure didn’t look forward to weekends.
Divorce or Stay? Using Direct vs. Circumstantial Evidence to Decide
Sifting through the evidence of feelings.
Sifting through the evidence of feelings.
The 7 Life-Changing Benefits of Treating My Ex-Wife Well After Divorce
How being cool to our exes makes our lives better.
How being cool to our exes makes our lives better.
What to Do When Your Spouse Isn’t Your Soulmate
The ‘OMG, I Just Found Out I’m Not with My Soulmate!’ emergency guide.
The ‘OMG, I Just Found Out I’m Not with My Soulmate!’ emergency guide.
How Marital Affairs Happen: The Beautiful Stranger I Wanted to Sleep With While I Was Married
When something hurts all the time, it’s easy to chase things that relieve the pain.
When something hurts all the time, it’s easy to chase things that relieve the pain.
8 Ways Good People Invalidate Their Partners and Ruin Relationships
Good people with good hearts do this all the time.
Good people with good hearts do this all the time.
How Trying to ‘Fit In’ Can Ruin Your Life and Marriage
Never abandon yourself to please another.
Never abandon yourself to please another.
An Open Letter to S***ty Husbands, Vol. 14
My wife put effort and energy into our relationship. I did not return that same level of effort and energy. We are now divorced.
My wife put effort and energy into our relationship. I did not return that same level of effort and energy. We are now divorced.
The Subtle Difference Between S***ty and Non-S***ty Husbands and Wives
The difference is so subtle that I didn’t recognize it until now.
The difference is so subtle that I didn’t recognize it until now.
The Marriage Paradox
Why do we marry?
Why do we marry?
The Fastest Way to Stop Feeling Angry: How a Dying Child Changed the World
I often wonder how much I’m getting wrong as a father.
I often wonder how much I’m getting wrong as a father.
Do You Love Your Spouse Enough?
Where does your spouse or romantic partner rank in your life?
Where does your spouse or romantic partner rank in your life?
You Don’t Have to Get Married So Maybe You Shouldn’t
Most people believe: “Getting married is just what you do when you’re old enough!”
Most people believe: “Getting married is just what you do when you’re old enough!”
How to Seduce Your Wife (Because Your Old Single-Guy Tactics Won’t Work)
Google processes more than 60,000 internet searches every second, or nearly 6 billion per day, and the Nos. 1 and 2 most-frequently searched terms are “sex” and “s e x.”
Google processes more than 60,000 internet searches every second, or nearly 6 billion per day, and the Nos. 1 and 2 most-frequently searched terms are “sex” and “s e x.”
The Cancer of Misunderstanding
Everyone loses right vs wrong arguments in relationships. And we never teach that to men.
Everyone loses right vs wrong arguements in relationships. And we never teach that to men.
Safety and Trust in Relationships: Those Words Don’t Mean What You Think They Mean
And here's the thing that ends relationships.
And here’s the thing that ends relationships.