Dating is dancing. We don’t dance to get somewhere. We dance because dancing itself is worth it. Living in a way that invites love — staying open, joining activities, flirting, expanding your world — that’s dancing.
This Psychology Model Will Transform Your Love Life
Your life is not the way it is because of what you’ve been through or any of your limitations, but because of the goals you’ve set for yourself.
Your life is not the way it is because of what you’ve been through or any of your limitations, but because of the goals you’ve set for yourself.
The “Ex Effect”: Why Your Brain Can’t Let Them Go
There’s a moment in Hamilton when Eliza sings about grieving—and then says she stopped wasting time on tears and lived another 50 years.
There’s a moment in Hamilton when Eliza sings about grieving—and then says she stopped wasting time on tears and lived another 50 years.
How to Know When to Leave a Relationship
For some people, the dissatisfaction might be sexual or about lost chemistry. If there’s a lot of love there, it might be worth asking: What’s really going on?
For some people, the dissatisfaction might be sexual or about lost chemistry. If there’s a lot of love there, it might be worth asking: What’s really going on?
Why Being Disliked Is Key to Finding Real Love
An enormous part of being capable of being disliked is accepting emotional discomfort. It won’t always feel easy. It requires courage.
– . Here is a summary of the transcript from YouTube, slightly edited with AI. People Pleasing Is Not Generosity When we make everything about other people all the time, it can look generous. But really, everything I’m doing for you, with you, thinking about you, is often still in relation to me. I…
They’ve Stopped Trying? Don’t Chase Do This Instead!
To the person who feels broken—who feels like they’ve done everything and still end up heartbroken—you are not broken.
“When a Relationship’s Right, It’s Easy” . . . Wrong!
Some of the best relationships I’ve ever known have struggled through really difficult things — not just outward challenges, but challenges within the relationship itself.
Some of the best relationships I’ve ever known have struggled through really difficult things — not just outward challenges, but challenges within the relationship itself.
From Anxious to Calm – The Secret Confident People Live By
The right people don’t expect perfection. They’re not looking for a flawless person—they’re looking for the right person for them.
The right people don’t expect perfection. They’re not looking for a flawless person—they’re looking for the right person for them.
The 4 Stages of Mixed Signals: Which One Are You Stuck In?
When someone we thought wanted us starts giving us mixed signals, it can leave us anxious, confused, and wondering where we stand.
When someone we thought wanted us starts giving us mixed signals, it can leave us anxious, confused, and wondering where we stand.
5 Signs to Know They’re Right for You
The danger of one-sided understanding.
The danger of one-sided understanding.
They Were Perfect… So Why Did It Still End?
What makes love last?
What makes love last?
Why Intimacy Feels So Good With the Wrong People – Matthew Hussey and Shan Boodram
The trick with dating is not to like somebody else but to like yourself.
The trick with dating is not to like somebody else but to like yourself.
How to Break the Cycle & Stop Chasing the Wrong Person
With healthy love, your body might not respond at first because it’s used to the “high” of chaos. But with time, your system learns to recognize safety and peace as the better, deeper feeling.
With healthy love, your body might not respond at first because it’s used to the “high” of chaos. But with time, your system learns to recognize safety and peace as the better, deeper feeling.
Limerence: What It Is and How to Break the Cycle
The term was coined by Dorothy Tennov in the 1970s to describe the intense feelings we often mistake for being “in love.” But really, it's more of an obsession.
The term was coined by Dorothy Tennov in the 1970s to describe the intense feelings we often mistake for being “in love.” But really, it’s more of an obsession.
How to Make Them Chase You Without Playing Games
You don’t need someone perfect. You need someone whose challenges you can understand and have compassion for—and who feels the same way about you.
You don’t need someone perfect. You need someone whose challenges you can understand and have compassion for—and who feels the same way about you.
The Subtle Habits That Kill Relationships (Without You Realizing)
Unpacking the Red Flag of Defensiveness
Unpacking the Red Flag of Defensiveness