Remember: the person who’s right for you is finding it just as difficult to find you as you are to find them.
What’s Behind the Male Fear That Women Only Care About Money?
You only lose power when you believe someone else defines your worth.
You only lose power when you believe someone else defines your worth.
Honest Advice to Anyone Wanting Marriage (I’m Two Years In)
Anxiety often disguises itself as a refusal to settle.
Anxiety often disguises itself as a refusal to settle.
Don’t Feel Attractive Enough for Modern Dating? Do This
Don’t delay the changes you want to make in your life another year. Life is too short.
Don’t delay the changes you want to make in your life another year. Life is too short.
5 Tips for Meeting People (From a Guy Who Couldn’t Use the Apps)
Remember: you don’t need the apps to meet someone. You just need movement. You need newness. You need small, brave actions repeated consistently.
Remember: you don’t need the apps to meet someone. You just need movement. You need newness. You need small, brave actions repeated consistently.
Why Women Are Giving up on Men in 2025
Whether you have no attention or a thousand matches, the goal is the same: find someone who gets you and whom you get.
Whether you have no attention or a thousand matches, the goal is the same: find someone who gets you and whom you get.
The Psychology of Why We Chase People Who Are Wrong for Us
Would you rather be safe & bored or excited & miserable?
Would you rather be safe & bored or excited & miserable?
The Subtle Signs They’ll Commit Forever
What we really want is someone who values the relationship so much—who values the history and the future you’re building together so much—that when those forces arise, the relationship wins.
What we really want is someone who values the relationship so much—who values the history and the future you’re building together so much—that when those forces arise, the relationship wins.
If You Hear This from Your Long-Distance Relationship… Run!
The most dangerous moment in dating is the moment you decide someone is the prize and you must win them.
The most dangerous moment in dating is the moment you decide someone is the prize and you must win them.
The Subtle Signs a Narcissistic Partner Is Destroying Your Life
When someone knows they have a grip on our nervous system and our emotions, they know they can still impact us as long as they still have contact. This is why contact with a narcissist can be so dangerous.
When someone knows they have a grip on our nervous system and our emotions, they know they can still impact us as long as they still have contact. This is why contact with a narcissist can be so dangerous.
Nearly 50% of Women Will Be Single by 2035
Have people just gotten so used to autonomy and life exactly the way they want it that relationships are less appealing?
Have people just gotten so used to autonomy and life exactly the way they want it that relationships are less appealing?
Why They’re Not Texting You Back (It’s Only Ever 2 Reasons)
What do I do when I am trying and nothing is happening on the other side?
What do I do when I am trying and nothing is happening on the other side?
The 3-Month Curse That Keeps Ending Your Relationships (And How to Break It)
We want to be with someone who, on some level, knows they’re a catch. That gives us comfort and certainty. They know they’re worth something.
We want to be with someone who, on some level, knows they’re a catch. That gives us comfort and certainty. They know they’re worth something.
Why Dating Feels Like a Competition (How to Win Without Competing)
Dating is dancing. We don’t dance to get somewhere. We dance because dancing itself is worth it. Living in a way that invites love — staying open, joining activities, flirting, expanding your world — that’s dancing.
Dating is dancing. We don’t dance to get somewhere. We dance because dancing itself is worth it. Living in a way that invites love — staying open, joining activities, flirting, expanding your world — that’s dancing.
This Psychology Model Will Transform Your Love Life
Your life is not the way it is because of what you’ve been through or any of your limitations, but because of the goals you’ve set for yourself.
Your life is not the way it is because of what you’ve been through or any of your limitations, but because of the goals you’ve set for yourself.
The “Ex Effect”: Why Your Brain Can’t Let Them Go
There’s a moment in Hamilton when Eliza sings about grieving—and then says she stopped wasting time on tears and lived another 50 years.
There’s a moment in Hamilton when Eliza sings about grieving—and then says she stopped wasting time on tears and lived another 50 years.