Steven Lake echoes Charles Dickens who said, “Never close your lips to those whom you have already opened your heart.”
7 Ways to Make Your Partner Feel Appreciated: The Obvious and Not so Obvious
Steven Lake reminds of us of the ways we can appreciate our partner, even when the world conspires to make us lose sight of what we have.
My Father, My Self: It’s Complicated
My Father Changed, But My Memories Are Not So Easily Shed.
Disney, Mom, and the Fear of Angry Women
A Loving Mom and Disney Set-up Unrealistic Expectations for Steven Lake When Coping With Women’s Anger
Ten Ways Men Touch Their Wives Without Touching Them
Steven Lake shows us how we can touch our partner without touching.
7 Challenges of Being Good Men in Committed Relationships
Steven Lake Explores the Influences That Challenge Men to Remain Faithful
The Ick Factor: Who Does the Dirty Work?
Steven Lake examines how we define the sh*t jobs around the house and who does the clean up.
Mother’s Day: A Man’s Reflection
Steven Lake explores the ties that bind us to our Mothers.
What’s up Doc? Men, Health and Marriage.
Steven Lake explores what keeps men from looking after their health.
Loving a Strong Woman: Pros and Cons
Can you handle a strong woman? And why would you want to?
Step-Dad: Navigating rough waters.
Steven Lake explores three challenges of being a step-dad — there are many more!
Results of comment poll for, “You don’t want sex? Ever!”
The results are in. See what you had to say when sex is not on the table – or under it for that matter.
“You don’t want sex? Ever!”
What’s a guy supposed to do when his partner tells him she doesn’t want to have sex anymore?
Married to the Masculine: I Want a Divorce!
Steven Lake flies backward in time to understand how he has conceptualized masculinity and what it means to be “male.”
Sex at Sixty: Need vs Want
A committed relationship allows for sexual transformation.
Stop, Look, and Listen: 3 Keys to Successful Communication
Steven Lake knows that men and women often communicate differently, but that doesn’t mean they’ll never be able to understand one another.















