How to maintain your center when your partner is pushing and pulling.
About Steven Lake
5 Ways To Take Care of Yourself in a Relationship
How to feel good in a whole other way. Steven Lake looks at what it really takes to nourish yourself when in a relationship. It’s not about her.
Is Marriage a Ball and Chain?
Men often joke about marriage as being like a ball and chain. Does this metaphor get too much airtime? Dr. Steve hacksaws into this old adage.
Vinegar or Wine? How Has Time Affected Your Relationship?
Time is the great leveller. Find out how to make it work for you.
Time is the great leveller. Find out how to make it work for you.
What do you do when your wife has a meltdown?
The sailboat that nearly capsized the relationship. I exaggerate, but it was intense.
The sailboat that nearly capsized the relationship. I exaggerate, but it was intense.
My Best Friend Dies
Steven Lake's dreams lead him through the grieving process.
Steven Lake’s dreams lead him through the grieving process.
Bored of Sex With Your Partner?
It happens to everyone. Here's how to work through it and become un-bored.
It happens to everyone. Here’s how to work through it and become un-bored.
Are We Having Fun?
Has the fun gone out of your relationship? There is a simple technique anyone can do to have fun again.
Has the fun gone out of your relationship? There is a simple technique anyone can do to have fun again.
10 Thoughtless Things To Avoid In Your Marriage
Lack of awareness plus lack of thought equals lack of relationship. Steven Lake identifies ten behaviors that put your marriage at risk.
My Wife Becomes a Mirror and I See Myself
Steven Lake sees himself through his wife’s eyes, and it’s not a pretty picture — it’s hysterical.
5 Things I Wish My Father Told Me About Marriage
Trying to avoid his father’s mistakes, Steven Lake shares what would have made a difference in his understanding of relationships if . . .
Self-Growth: How To Put Your Relationship At Risk
Can your relationship survive the personal growth experience? Steven Lake examines how personal development can put your relationship in jeopardy.
How Do the Changing Roles of Masculinity Affect Your Relationship?
We keep searching for ways to define ourselves and our masculinity. Steven Lake examines how societal change and men’s view of themselves affect relationships.
Lyin’ And Cheatin’: How To Screw Up Your Relationship Real Good
Steven Lake explores how a lack of self-awareness leads to crippling choices in relationship.
Does Your Relationship Keep You Awake at Night . . . For the Wrong Reasons?
We all question our relationship at some point – that’s normal. How you handle your anxiety is where things get complicated.
12 Easy Steps For Avoiding An Affair
There are no guarantees BUT you can load the dice to reduce the odds of an affair. Steven Lake shows us how to roll and win.