Red flags can create panic and a call to action. But you can do something *before* they create cracks in your relationship.
So what should we place our bet on (look for) in a relationship so that it will grow into something bigger and grow us?
“The one” and “our person”, PLUS pretty much every movie about love, has programmed us to grab our partners instead of hold.
Your ideas are meant to make you less afraid.
Stay in creation mode long enough and you will start to see the world differently.
The first domino to the new you.
How attraction actually works.
To love is to create the space to believe.
On the difference between finding someone attractive and choosing to love someone.
Here are four questions to ask yourself if you want to know if your relationship has a chance at being sustainable, meaningful, and healthy.
Don’t let this year be like all the others.
The choice to love is not a feeling; it is an action.
There is no “the one.” The idea that we are only meant to be with one person on this planet is not romantic.
I will take my learnings of 2018 and apply them to the new year. With a better understanding of myself and the way I choose to show up in the world. These learnings will act as tools, swords to slay new dragons.
Instead of creating a space for romance, curiosity, build up, foreplay, and flirting, we just want the punchline. We want to check the boxes as fast as we can.
It’s time to make it about you.