Question: My biggest fear about being a virgin when I got married was that I was only going to be with one person my entire life. Fast forward 12 years later, I am happily married, I love my husband, he’s my best friend and I could not have a more fulfilling life… BUT…all day every day I daydream about having sex with another person. If I see an attractive man on the street or at the movies or on the TV, my mind wanders to how sex would be with that person. I’m fulfilled by my husband but the urge to cheat on him is incredibly strong. What should I do? Will this pass? Is it a phase? Did I make a horrible mistake?
Answer: My friend, your feelings are absolutely normal, healthy and justified. If you’ve never experienced sexuality with anyone other than your husband, of course you are curious.
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