Internet is full of bullshit today.
You share one query and a thousand answers follow.
Some are relevant, some are not.
Typing this title online will lead to many love-attracting ways and remedies.
Including the direction of the bed you sleep on….
But I am not here for that.
And neither are you.
This is a no bullshit article.
These are the keys traits to attract the love of your life and keep her
1. Be a provider
Not just financially but physically and emotionally as well.
Women like men who are dependable.
So earn a living and be willing to provide for your family.
“Today women claim to be Feminists, they should be willing to pay equal in a household if they want equal rights” – Some random Joe on the Internet.
And that’s precisely why he is single.
I told you earlier, Internet is full of shit.
It’s not that women cannot take care of their own expenses.
We know a lot of women are running homes today.
But biologically women are capable of giving birth to children.
Hence, they are inherently attracted to men who can provide safety and security to them and the child they would bear.
It’s been like this since ancient times.
Also if a guy is a provider, he is likely to take responsibility.
We want to be “BOSS BABES” but not in a relationship.
No women wants to be the “Boss” in her relationship
Instead, they want to be “Passenger Princess.”
It’s only when we don’t trust a man’s lead, we want to take on the wheels.
2. Humour
A funny man is very likeable. Who doesn’t want to be around somebody who can make them laugh?
Humour is a sign of intelligence. And every woman likes an intelligent guy.
If you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything – Marilyn Monroe
Listen to Marilyn.
A way to women heart is humour.
Be funny but don’t be a standup comedian or worse – a joker.
It’s not the textbook jokes that would make a women laugh.
If you have seen Friends, you have been in love with Chandler’s humour. RIP —Matthew Perry.
Chandler was funny but he used it as a defence mechanism, hence it was awkward.
And you must know how many girls were attracted to him throughout the ten seasons.
For example, you could share an embarrassing memory, it would make her laugh and you would come out as a secure man.
Women love that.
You could playfully tease her by questioning her tastes in different areas. But obviously in a very non-offensive way.
For example, making fun of the kind of movies she likes.
You don’t have to agree to everything she likes. Have your own opinion too. That’s important.
But the most important part of it is that you are confident while exchanging the funny banter.
Don’t be awkward, don’t be Chandler.
3. Be kind
Kindness is virtue that is not very common in today’s world.
But it’s still there.
Some men are inherently kind.
And I have encountered men, who are kind just to show you they care.
But since we are exposed to so much information today, you can tell if somebody is being a fake.
Women hate nothing more than a fake.
If they can fake being kind, we take them as imposters, frauds or con men.
And nobody likes con men.
Kindness ensures emotional safety for women.
Kindness radiates positivity.
Kindness is a sign of high emotional intelligence.
Kindness makes a woman feel special and melts a her heart.
Kindness brings warmth and trust in a relationship. It’s deepens bonds.
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Final thoughts
If you possess these three traits, you are an attractive man.
You might be single but you are definitely a force of nature.
This article was based on my personal experiences.
Hope that helps!
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I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for reading my article. 🦋
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This post was previously published on medium.com.
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