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This week Andy Grant is joined by writer, podcaster, and coach, Jonti Searll, from South Africa. He has been working in the field of Conscious Sexuality for almost 20 years, creating healing processes, workshops and material that has helped many people create fulfilling experiences and relationships. Jonti shares his journey from aspiring Rabbi to sexuality coach in a very conservative society.
“Orgasm is a trap for men. That creates sex that is performance-based, not pleasure based.” ~Jonti Searll
Orgasms are wonderful, but that is not all there is. We can create possibilities for pleasure, in relationships, in health and all aspects of life. We can access and use our sexual energy as a force for healing, growth, meditation, creativity, and change. Our sexuality connects to all aspects of ourselves and our lives. As we remove our sexual blockages and allow more of that energy to flow, we allow all other energies to flow as we become more conscious, more connected and more alive.
Topics Covered Include:
- Tell about your podcast, SexTalk.
- What is Conscious Sexuality?
- How did you first get involved with this?
- Jonti’s creative process.
- Is South Africa an open and inviting country for this sort of work?
- Is sexuality more than sex?
- What is our Sexual Energy?
- What are some examples of sexual healing?
- How do you see porn impacting sexuality?
- What sort of workshops and events do you lead?
- What is loving touch?
- Do men touch enough?
- The top six things people want in communication.
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Watch Conscious Sexuality and Sexual Healing with Jonti Searll – Real Men Feel, Episode 91
Let us know what you thought here in the comments or shoot an email to [email protected].
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“Porn and chick flicks are both fantasy worlds.” ~Jonti Searll
Most men have a friction-based goal for sex. The goal should be pleasure.
See the post that first caught Andy’s eye – Loving Men.
Our sexuality is linked to all of who we are; our sexual energy is our life-force. Releasing the blockages we’ve created and freeing ourselves from the limitations of the past allows us to create lives, relationships, and experiences of incredible beauty.
Our sexual energy is a force for not only personal transformation but has the power to be used to change our world. This is Jonti’s mission.
Learn more about Jonti at ErosLife.co.za.
Check out his SexTalk Podcast.
Connect with Jonti on Facebook, Twitter or YouTube.
Subscribe to the podcast at RealMenFeel.org/iTunes
Like the Real Men Feel show on Facebook facebook.com/realmenfeelshow
Scroll down to the author bio for all the links to access more #RealMenFeel
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