
Guilt is one of the greatest evils of humanity and imprisons you in the negativity of a painful life. You can learn to understand the strong situations that have marked you in life and free yourself.
There is a trend on social networks talking a lot about choices and consequences.
What no one says is that many wrong choices we make are the result of inexperience, naivety, a good heart, and trust in toxic people. We are not the consequence of our choices, we are the consequence of our learnings.
We are raised to be perfect, we learn that making mistakes is ugly, and that God will see and punish us, etc… These are the thoughts that are put into our heads in childhood, especially by our mothers. What we really need to learn and accept is that we are evolving beings and we are here for improvement.
God is not up there looking at you and judging you all the time. God looks at you with love, and helps you to get up in difficult times, he is within you.
Don’t listen to criticism from people who don’t know the real source of your problems.
You know the path you took and what you felt when you made wrong decisions and bad events presented themselves in your life.
Criticism generates resentment and hurt. Those who point out the mistakes of others have usually already taken the same path, or even much worse and darker paths. Judges have evil spiritual companions and are extremely toxic people, because they feed on the sadness of others.
Avoid pointing out the mistakes of others as well, so as not to attract these energies to you. We have our stories and we know our truths, but the truth of others is unknown to us, no matter how close we live with others and no matter how toxic they may be.
Don’t go against yourself and don’t feel like a victim. When you feel like a victim, you attract bad energies into your life and everything bad happens, especially diseases, the worst.
Everything is energy, everything is attracted. If you feel guilty and less valuable than others, you will surely be undervalued and treated with disdain by everyone around you.
Our memory is not always our friend, sometimes what we try to forget comes to us in the form of flashes at unexpected moments. Pray at these moments, forgive yourself, disconnect.
Don’t mistreat yourself and don’t put yourself below others, many times the person who criticizes you has made monstrous mistakes and is pointing out yours to feel better about themselves.
Take care of yourself, other people’s mistakes are other people’s mistakes and understand that you are responsible for your own journey only.
If you see your brother make a mistake, it’s his mistake, it’s part of his evolution, you shouldn’t judge or criticize.
Look at everything with love, emanate love instead of inferior feelings. Everything is energy, what you send always comes back, that’s why love is the best thing to send to the universe.
If you deny yourself and treat yourself badly, people will treat you badly too. But if you love yourself and embrace your soul, you will demand respect and attract love and good things into your life.
Be strong, have claws, have will, have love, you can handle your life and your choices.
May God bless you always!
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