The Root Cause of Problems

A man likes a woman, an affair lasts for two or three years, then marriage takes place, and after a while, everything ends with divorce.

Parents love their little children very much and dedicate day and night to their growth and education.

But when these children grow up and cross the threshold of puberty, it has been seen that love for children in the heart of the parents, is gradually decreasing.

Rather, in many places, parents have serious complaints against their children.

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Two people become friends and the friendship lasts for some time. But after a short time this friendship begins to crack and slowly the friendship turns into enmity.

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Question for you:-

Have you ever considered what is the real reason for these hatreds and quarrels between each other?

Why is this piece of land burning day by day in the fire of hatred?

My Claim

If we look at it with a cold mind, the basis of all these is our tongue, which means the misuse of the tongue.

Now if you analyze the complaints of grieving wives, heartbroken parents and depressed friends, then you will believe that my claim is correct.

Analysis starts

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1. The wife complains that the husband speaks harsh words in anger and advises in a very strict manner.

2. The same is true of parents’ complaints that their children are harsh in their behavior and use harsh words.

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Solution

✓ When you are angry, try to move away from that place.
✓ If you advise, do it in a cool manner and in soft words.

✓ The husband is advised that if he doesn’t like something in wife, he should not utter any bad words in his anger.

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Aversion to error and evil is a natural process, but think what attitude and what words I would have preferred for myself if this mistake had been made by me.

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And it is a natural process for parents to complain about their children’s mistakes. But you should also try to explain to your children with a cool heart.

Summary

The summary is….