Question: In order for me to gain the relationship I seek… do I have to give up something else equally important?
Answer: While it’s true there are only 24 hours in a day… in terms of what you desire to create in your life… You don’t have to punish yourself or go without in one area in order to deserve or have something in another area.
One point of view in life with is that it’s either/or which is limiting.
Another point of view is seeing yourself and life as limitless by asking the question, What would it take for me to have both?
We are never meant to suffer or be punished or be cruel to ourselves or sacrifice like martyrs. It’s true that life will always be met with equal parts challenge and support… so in order for you to gain the relationship you choose, you may be challenged with time organization, challenged with healing your heart to be open and receive intimacy, challenged to let go of activities that are not a contribution to your vision.
But that’s different than giving up something important to your heart and soul, yes?
When we get clear on our vision, mission and purpose… when we get clear on our hearts deepest desires… every choice we make can be a contribution to that vision.
So if something else is equally important to you… The relationship you desire is going to be a contribution, a benefit, added value, an advantage so that you have even MORE success, joy and fulfillment, not less 😉
I know this is just semantics, but words have power… so I want to bring to your attention the way you phrased “in order for me to gain the relationship I SEEK”.
Seeking in and of itself is like needing, wanting, coming from lack, coming from emptiness. When we ask the universe a question confirming our lack… all it can do vibrationally is respond with a confirmation of the vibration of lack.
I encourage you to ask questions like… What would it take for me to have the relationship I choose? Can you feel the difference? It’s subtle… True. However, 211° is not boiling. It only takes only 1° and then it’s 212° and all of a sudden water is boiling, a state change, a new reality! Make sense?
I have several ways to support you in creating a relationship from that whole, centered, grounded place of choice rather than a limiting point of view where you have to suffer or come from emptiness. I have complementary trainings, videos, and weekly Podcast, homestudy curriculums as well as one on one private coaching and VIP 2 Day Intensives.
Please honor your dreams by choosing what resonates with you as it would be a phenomenal privilege to support you in tipping into the dimension of having it all 🙂
Quantum physicist Nassim Haramein who I quote several times in my upcoming book “Heart Splayed Wide Open“ and who was interviewed in my interview series program “Brave Bold and Raw”, says until you believe it, you can’t create it as your reality. It’s science.
Together we can create anything 😉
Humongous love, Allana xox