She’s Hot. She’s your Boss. Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt explores the Do’s and Don’ts of a steamy office Romance…
Question: I’m interested in a girl from work. I asked her out but now I’m having second thoughts. You always hear the age old saying, Don’t shit where you eat. I don’t want this to blow up in my face. What should I do?
Answer: First I honor you for being so aware of what’s possible here and not diving in blind.
Second, if this doesn’t work out, are you prepared to weather the storm and navigate the potential discomfort at work?
Third, if she’s just hot and too much is on the line with this job, or if HR is SO against it that you both jeopardize your jobs… let it go.
Fourth, yet if she really wakes up something deep inside you that makes you want to live your legacy with passion… if you are ready for a committed relationship and she could really be the one, then have a mature open honest conversation. Talk about the deal, your expectations, what would happen worse case scenario that would be honoring of both parties. Then HAVE FUN!
Easier said than done? Yes, those vulnerable mature risky conversations can make or break a relationship before it even gets started! If you are stuck in automatic survival mechanisms from past relationships, you could blow it big time. If you deep down believe you don’t deserve a breathtaking romance and fear she’s eventually leave you or cheat like the others… again, you’ll literally create your worst fears.
Thus just like if you have 4 hours to cut down a tree, spend 3 1/2 hours sharpening the saw… I recommend you heal your inner world then take your best step forward. How? A smart place to start is my complementary report and video series to awaken your badass nobility found at www.GetHerToSayYes.com. Set yourself up to win out of the gate.
What’s it going to take for you to savor a hot healthy intimate relationship that will fuel your work life through the roof?
Deliciously, Allana xoox
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