Happy New Year!
After going dark over the holidays, we’re back with an exciting new “article”…
This week’s article comes in the form of a video. I hope you enjoy it, because if you do, I’ll do more of them in the future.
If you don’t, it’s only about two and a half minutes long, meaning you’ll get through it a lot quicker than my normal ramblings.
Enjoy the show!
(Question has been modified for clarity.)
I’ve been in a “friends with benefits” relationship with a girl for nine years. We keep in touch regularly and talk about all sorts of things. We get along well.
We both are currently in other relationships, and have been throughout. The cheating aspect of it all hasn’t stopped us from continuing these other relationships.
She has made it known that she’s attracted to me and has always wanted to date someone like me, so my question is this:
Should I ask her if she wants to be more than what we are now?
–YourGator; Gainesville, FL
Watch Brent’s response here:
To submit a question, please complete this form. All submissions are anonymous.
◊♦◊
Need more advice? Check out the most recent installments:
Why Won’t My Husband Have Sex With Me?
The Value of a Home-Cooked Meal
Photo: Getty Images
It’s a little different question than I thought when reading the title. The answer I’d give is different too. I say do it, not because it will necessarily work out for you, but because as long as you keep the relationship with her that you have, nothing will work out for you. You won’t fully commit to another woman while you have her on the side.
Interesting perspective, and definitely a worthwhile point. Thanks for sharing, John!