About Joel Schwartzberg

Joel Schwartzberg is a nationally-published essayist and author of the award-winning collection "The 40-Year-Old Version: Humors of a Divorced Dad" (www.bookfordad.com). He was one of the original contributors to The Good Men Project.

Can a “Real Man” Enjoy Barry Manilow?

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Joel Schwartzberg outs himself as a fan of Barry Manilow, who turns 69 on Sunday.

Off The Soldier

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What’s an appropriate way to honor our soldiers? Hint: It doesn’t necessarily involve a barbecue or mall sales.

The 40-Year-Old Teenager

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Joel Schwartzberg offers this advice to newly-divorced men: Don’t even think
about going “home.”

Do Real Men Drink Dr. Pepper TEN?

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Joel Schwartzberg calls BS on “manly” calories and diet sodas designed “just for men.”

Why Do Family Films Demonize Divorce?

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Joel Schwartzberg says it’s not fair for kid flicks to make divorce the ultimate tragedy.

The Pick-Up Artist

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How one dad saw divorce as an opportunity to be a better father. I wrote this shortly after my divorce, when I first began to sense the opportunity before me: not a second chance to be an authentic dad, but a first. I share it hoping it’ll help newly-separated dads understand and recognize the road [...]

Anger Mismanagement

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Joel Schwartzberg found he had to reconcile with his own childhood anger before being able to help his son.

10 Things Divorced Dads Need to Know

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Becoming a divorced father is an opportunity, Joel Schwartzberg writes. Yes, an opportunity.

When Winning Isn’t Anything

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Joel Schwartzberg’s kids don’t care about medals or awards, and he’s beginning to realize that might not be a bad thing.

Under My Skin

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After a divorce, Joel Schwartzberg seeks an anchor. And a dermatologist.

Back-to-School Night

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Visiting his children’s grade school gave Joel Schwartzberg a few clues—not about his kids, but about himself.