How Is Columbus Day Still a Thing?!

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John Oliver: “Columbus became famous for his discoveries. Specifically the discovery that you can ‘discover’ a continent with millions of people already living on it.”

A Guy Crashes a Rooftop Pool Party as Only a Base Jumper in Kuala Lumpur Can

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It must be that he was dressed in parachuting attire. But the party hosts weren’t even the least bit flummoxed.

Bob Feller: On Greatness

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The baseball great on opportunity, failure, and success.

How to Defeat Failure in 60 Seconds (Video)

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Failure, we all have experienced it! This video shows you how to defeat failure in 60 seconds.

Comment of the Day: “Is it different for gay men?”

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Are attitudes about sexuality that different among gay men?

Bug vs Door

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Doc Luben performs a stunning spoken word poem about a moment of insight into the male experience.

We Need to Care for All Boys and Girls

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Personal experience with abuse has started a conversation about how to care for all who are in a cycle of sexualized violence.

Comment of the Day: “Consistency creates concepts of normalcy that are neither normal nor healthy…”

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Photoshop, trick photography, or other manipulation has been around since advertising’s infancy. Does it need to stop?

Comment of the Day: “I was stuck in an abusive friendship…”

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You can leave yourself behind for another person before you realize you’ve done it…

Comment of the Day: “It was an impossible assignment…and yet the teacher got mad that they did not answer the question.”

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“I remember in 4th or 6th grade, our teacher talked about Ellis Island and immigration…”

Comment of the Day: “Relationships have to work in the everyday for me if they are to last.”

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Relationships evolve. Sometimes less really is more.

Why It’s OK to State the Obvious (More Often Than Sometimes Performed by Shane Koyczan)

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Shane Koyczan nails it once again. Relationships, messy and soft and perplexing and beautiful. A first kiss that tastes like pepper. Love like a nuclear power plant plugged into the sun. And stating the obvious.

Comment of the Day: “If he does make tentative steps toward that then recognize that effort…”

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Encouraging openness is important. Not berating a lack of perfection is, too.

Couples Try To Recognize Each Other’s Smell

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How much do you trust your nose? How much should your partner trust your nose?

Comment of the Day: I want to enjoy my crisis with integrity and mindfulness…

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Popular culture loves calling a situation like this a “midlife crisis.” Maybe it should be called a “midlife awakening”.

Friend Zone is Not Just for Guys

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For Gen X’ers, anyone who deviates from the gender norms of the past could be in line for the friend zone.