The Story of My Vasectomy, a Snarky Jingle and Tom Waits


Post-vasectomy haze, I floated, heard myself say: “Do you like Tom Waits? Answer ‘No’ and you’ll go to hell where five strangers will cut your genitals.”

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How Having Integrity Can Keep Your Marriage From Crumbling

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View image | Actually doing what you say you will do is a big deal, regardless of how big or small the occurrence is. — I realized that I had blown it. A few days ago I told my wife I was going to do one thing but then did something different. If I […]

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Nine Ways that Ghosting can Improve Your Relationships


I am a personal Ghoster and here is my story.

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7 Things to Remember if You’re a White Person in an Interracial Relationship

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When you’re a white person in an interracial relationship, there’s this whole white supremacy thing hanging in the air.

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6 Things Men Can Do After They Discover They Are in an Abusive Relationship

6 Things by Beverley Goodwin

Men are often the victims in abusive relationships. Jordan Kozey explains what to do when you get out.

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Too Much to Do, Not Enough Time


Let this moment be exactly as it is. Lose old expectations of the man you think you are supposed to be as you let go with joy and relief.

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Healing Cancer with Aloha

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How ancient Hawaiian wisdom can help heal a modern epidemic.

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How to Deal When Your Man Feels He is Losing His Mind or Memory


Never attribute to malice or ill-will that which can be readily attributed to heartlessness or carelessness.

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20 Things We Need to Be Telling Our Boys

20 Things by Vinoth Chandar

There’s stuff our little boys need to hear—but we’re not telling them.

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When Mom is Emotionally Unstable: 7 Ways to Heal

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How do you figure out how to be in her presence—have a relationship with her—while not allowing yourself to be sucked into the vortex of her emotions?

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How to Be Calm Under Pressure

How to Be Calm by Benjamin Watson

Emotional intelligence expert Dr. Travis Bradberry shares his secrets to handling stress.

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Quit Denying Yourself the Happiness You So Deserve

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Making it through every day can feel like a struggle. Happiness can lighten that load a little at a time.

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Finding Solace in My Universe

Finding Solace by NASA

Ray Jennings finds comfort in contemplating the big, unanswerable questions.

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Do Men Care About Women’s Wrinkles?

Do Men Care by Look Into My Eyes

Those lines around women’s eyes? The men August McLaughlin interviewed said, “Frankly my dear, I don’t give a damn.”

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How to Sit Through Grief

How to Sit by Louise Thayer

Louise Thayer finds a way to stay present through loss without letting grief become overwhelming.

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