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Collaborative Negotiation Helps Your Marriage Be Fair and Equal
Re-thinking marriage can help you and your partner can create the kind of life you want together—and in the process help change our society.
Re-thinking marriage can help you and your partner can create the kind of life you want together—and in the process help change our society.
Your Emotions Are Not ‘Things’ in Your Brain
What you feel depends on your own history with others and the current situation.
What you feel depends on your own history with others and the current situation.
People Are Not Toxic, but They Do Behave Badly
“It doesn’t work for me” is a powerful statement of my position without putting anyone down.
“It doesn’t work for me” is a powerful statement of my position without putting anyone down.
Interact, Don’t Transact With Your Spouse!
Too often couples are advised to create a transactional form of marriage—“you satisfy my need, I satisfy yours.”
Too often couples are advised to create a transactional form of marriage—“you satisfy my need, I satisfy yours.”
Disagreements Are Not Conflicts
Negotiate disagreements. Conflicts need self-reflection.
Negotiate disagreements. Conflicts need self-reflection.
The Dynamics of Dating and Marriage—We Can Do Better
You have been “doing gender” in dating and marriage without even knowing it.
You have been “doing gender” in dating and marriage without even knowing it.
Selfishness in Marriage: ‘I Need ___’
Needs vs. wants—it's not just semantics.
Needs vs. wants—it’s not just semantics.
10 ‘Up-Front’ Conversation to Have Before Getting Married Part 2
Doing “slow love” (choosing multiple pre-marital partners, having friends with benefits, or living with partners) is a good thing. Don't worry that marriage is going out of style.
Doing “slow love” (choosing multiple pre-marital partners, having friends with benefits, or living with partners) is a good thing. Don’t worry that marriage is going out of style.
10 ‘Up-Front’ Conversations to Have Before Getting Married Part 1
Hearing those wedding bells? It's time to have the kind of serious conversations that will set the stage for the equitable, sustainable, and satisfying marriage you want.
Hearing those wedding bells? It’s time to have the kind of serious conversations that will set the stage for the equitable, sustainable, and satisfying marriage you want.
The Right Way to Negotiate with Your Partner
Collaborative negotiation can help your marriage be fair and equal.
Collaborative negotiation can help your marriage be fair and equal.
Marital Fidelity–It’s About Conviction, Not Convention
A new approach to marital fidelity is needed, one that has been called the “new monogamy.”
A new approach to marital fidelity is needed, one that has been called the “new monogamy.”
How Important is Self-Awareness for Men?
Self-aware men build better relationships.
Self-aware men build better relationships.