Are we really searching for love, or are we just trying to protect our hearts?
About Lilé van der Weijden
For All My Single Ladies Out There: How to Find the One (Spoiler: It’s Not What You Might Think)
Just Between Us: Insights on Life, Love, and Finding Meaning
Just Between Us: Insights on Life, Love, and Finding Meaning
What Cheating Really Does
It doesn’t just destroy the relationship, it destroys your sense of self.
It doesn’t just destroy the relationship, it destroys your sense of self.
How to Keep Your Cool When You Start Catching Feelings
Control the puppy, without killing it
Control the puppy, without killing it
How to Handle Closeness Without Feeling Smothered
Dating 101 for people with avoidant attachment style.
Dating 101 for people with avoidant attachment style.
Why Some People Are More Vulnerable to Betrayal
And how to rebuild trust without shutting the world out.
And how to rebuild trust without shutting the world out.
My Experience With Men Who Talk Too Much
and mostly about themselves…
and mostly about themselves…
The Trap of Dating Rational Men
When every argument makes sense, but your body screams no…
When every argument makes sense, but your body screams no…
Inside the Mind of an Anxious-Avoidant
Why I chase the wrong people, run from the right ones, and wonder if I can ever stop…
Why I chase the wrong people, run from the right ones, and wonder if I can ever stop…
My First Post-Breakup Date
All it takes is some (delusional) optimism and cheesecake…
All it takes is some (delusional) optimism and cheesecake…
Why Commitment Feels So Uncomfortable for Avoidants
“It’s not fear of love, it’s fear of…”
“It’s not fear of love, it’s fear of…”
Emotional Cheating vs. Physical Cheating: Which Hurts More?
Let’s talk about it…
Let’s talk about it…
A Society of Detachment and Red Flags
Social media has trained us to make instant assessments…
Social media has trained us to make instant assessments…
The Four Words No One Wants to Hear In a New Relationship
I Like You, But…
I Like You, But…
6 Reasons People Cheat (And Why Understanding This Matters)
Most of my boyfriends cheated on me, and, for a long time, I blamed myself for it…
Most of my boyfriends cheated on me, and, for a long time, I blamed myself for it…
What Avoidants Secretly Want in Love
It all comes down to four key things…
It all comes down to four key things…