The Off Parent wonders if we’ve made it too easy and convenient to get divorced.
This Is Going To Hurt—Divorce With Children
“What came out, in the weeks that progressed, was the vast difference in our perspectives on the future of our family.”
A Tale of Dating: Two Tails Wagging or No Tails Wagging
The Off Parent admits to his animal instincts.
When the Sex Goes and a Man’s Still Committed, What Is He to Do?
Hit with the divorced dad holiday blues, the Off Parent asks “The Question.”
Great Sex Won’t Help Your Not-So-Great Marriage
Great sex is great—says a self-confessed sex addict. But mastering technique doesn’t guarantee long-term satisfaction.
How I Stopped Dating and Started Learning
For The Off Parent, letting go of dating opens the pathway to knowledge.
Why Husbands and Wives Shouldn’t Keep Secrets
If your partner is lying to be with you, watch your back.
Do You Want to Have More Joyful Sex? (Who Doesn’t?)
The best sex is joyful sex, and once you’ve had it, there’s no going back. The Off Parent shows you how to get there.
Available: Used Husband, Classic Model, Works Well With Kids
A divorced dad puts himself on the market and starts to feel like an ad on Craigslist.
Mis-Match in Online Dating: A 10-point Overview of Match.com
It’s all a crap shoot. Photos lie. Profiles tell half-truths. And some of us, interested in actually establishing a relationship, spend time in the backwaters of the game sorting through “more like her” …
Tinder Dating Is New and Fun—and Lacking Useful Filters
It’s easy and sorta-fun to open the app and see who shows up. It’s a little hit of possibility that gives us a tiny rush of dopamine.
The Woman Who Says “Yes” – The Tinder Dating Dance
The light at the end of the tunnel may be an oncoming train, or a love crush barreling down on you. Either way, it’s all in the timing.
Big 5 Relationship Questions to Answer Before You Start Dating Again
The Off Parent explains why he won’t settle for anything less than YES.
Refinding Your Core Happiness After Divorce
The author lost his core happiness during the closing days of his marriage and the opening days of his divorce. Here is how he found joy again.
First Date Lessons: If You’re Not Falling, You’re Not Learning
As the evening progressed we moved through a lot of topics. Her eyes continued to sparkle. Her smiling conversational wit continued to entice me.
My Casual Sex Experience—First Lessons
She didn’t even walk me out, as she had done every time before. Casual had its appeal, but now it feels a bit too callous.