Why do we get up to run?
Praise
My friend died. I miss him...
My friend died. I miss him…
There’s This Subtle Difference Between Entitlement and Gratitude
I think I am working my way out of the one into the other.
I think I am working my way out of the one into the other.
Boyhood Without Rites of Passage
We cannot rescue our children from the discomfort of coming up in this troubled world.
We cannot rescue our children from the discomfort of coming up in this troubled world.
Excuses Are Like Puppies
I promise I’ll get clear on my commitment after…
I promise I’ll get clear on my commitment after…
If You’re a Man and You Think a Trans Man Isn’t, You Haven’t Done Enough Men’s Work
Gender was if you made things out of wood.
Gender was if you made things out of wood.
Embodying the Self – as a Priority – Is Embodying the Shadow
There can be no wholeness without shadow.
There can be no wholeness without shadow.
To White People, When a POC Points Out Your Privilege, Asks You to Stop, and You Feel Hella Defensive:
Best just to keep quiet, feel the burn, and pray for the knowledge and strength to understand and belong to this crazy world you secretly fear you have no place in.
Best just to keep quiet, feel the burn, and pray for the knowledge and strength to understand and belong to this crazy world you secretly fear you have no place in.
A Powerful Realization That Finally Landed for Me
I no longer chase people.
I no longer chase people.
For or Against?
We are required to desire.
We are required to desire.
Specialness
“A man must give up his specialness and become ‘just a man’ before he can serve his community.”
“A man must give up his specialness and become ‘just a man’ before he can serve his community.”
3 Moments That Cracked the Guy Code
There are moments in life that define a man's soul - by confronting him with a choice between his authenticity and going along to get along.
There are moments in life that define a man’s soul – by confronting him with a choice between his authenticity and going along to get along.