This comment by bobbt on the post Top 4 Reasons Why Some Single Women Go After Married Men
This isn’t a new phenomenon by any means. Many years ago, while refurbishing a section of highway, I became friends with a civil engineer (an inspector) on the project. We were about the same age and both married for a couple of years at the time. I came to realize that he was quite the ‘Playa’, so when we stopped at a bar one day after work (a place he frequented) and he took off his wedding ring I figured” Oh, here we go” (Now, I’ve never worn my wedding ring, because it can be a hazard in my line of work, plus I don’t like wearing jewelry). Anyway, he said to me that he took it off so the women in the place would leave us alone. I said WHAT! He said that the women that frequent this place were looking for married men to ‘Hook Up’ with. That they wanted ‘noncommittal sex’ and that many of them were in fact married themselves! It was quite an eye opener!
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Food for Thought:
Should we not encourage and expect people to have morals and scruples and not seek out married people or those in committed relationships for sex ?
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The more things change the more they stay the same. Human nature did not change and the we related to each other has not either. Every generation thinks they invented relationships and sex, and they didn’t. What we need is tolerance, acceptance, full equality of responsibilities and benefits and celebration of the differences that make humans so fascinating. And please respect those of us in committed relationships enough to leave them alone as long as they are committed. With over 7 billion people on the planet, surely there is an available one for you!
Well said Tsach!